My dear AE,
This entire line of discussion exists because he has major misconceptions about who God IS and the role that scriptures play in telling us who God is. This is the crucible of the very things you so despise. Once you realize that much of the God of the OT has been anthropomorphized into the image of man, replete with all of man's baser emotions (hate, jealousy, etc) and that the TRUE God is personified in the Love of Jesus, then you can see why he is trying to justify the two. Even the NT has these throw back moments (the withering fig tree) and I am certain that these events are distortions of the LOVE that God is.
But as you wish, I will make no further declarations within this thread.