You clearly don't understand alcoholism. It is NOT A CHOICE. Any more than cancer is a choice. There is no "putting your mind to it". For many, there IS NO CURE. They will live until they die, alcoholic. We can kill them, or we can ease their suffering (and the suffering they cause others), and that's about it.
Not sure you have considered what you offered. But now you have posted that comment, that offers many people in the future will fall prey to the same addiction and destroy lives an families, a comment that really reflects the purpose of this OP, how many would happily give up their couple of responsible drinks, to help all those future victims out?
Regards Tony