On this i actually agree with you.
And here we'll just have to agree to disagree. Though in truth most women who get abortions aren't doing it simply because they don't want a baby. There's far more to it than that and we can never know a woman's circumstances which led to her decision. So i feel it is unfair to judge her, especially since the line where a glob of cells becomes a human is so vague.
Al decisions are done for more reasons than those that we can imagine.
Its impossible not to judge people and it would be incredibly detrimental to not judge people.
Now assuming she is a "bad" person would be useless, just as it would be useless to assume a lot of people through history were "bad" persons simply for being children of their time. People say that glob of cells its not yet human so its not, in the past they said those black people were not human so they were not, etc.
Its not about saying the person its "bad" , its about an attitude that diminishes huuman value on my view.
In any case, I must say I am today against making abortion ilegal, simply because it seems it doesnt bear any fruit, no decrease, etc.
Its a real shame though.