Ughh...as attempts to draw an analogy goes, this misses the mark. Posting random crap you don't actually believe in is hardly supportive of your viewpoint. Can you defend rape, on a subjective level? Please...be my guest. Abortion can be defended, even if you don't agree with said defence.
Anything can be defended on a subjective level. Neither of us will believe the point because neither of us do, but for many years men were not guilty of rape, the woman was the most guilty one.
The point there though stopped being about abortion but about taking into consideration the state of mind of someone to see if the act is immoral or not.
That in itself is a disastrously fundamentally flawed stance from where to try to defend your point.
I can understand (and disagree) saying the baby is not a person.
I can understand (and disagree) saying that the woman's "control" over her body is more important than the life of the unborn (and disagree)
But it is completely inconsecuential to the evaluation of the morality of an
act ( and act, not a person) the kind of emotional state the person indulging in it was at.
No matter how heartborken you are or whatever, drinking while driving is immoral, dangerous to others and stupid. Yes, maybe I would have done it or do it if e circumstance was terrible enough ( lets hope that never happens) but the fact that someone can understand me drinking and driving because idk, my whole family was murdered and the killer raped the corpses, has no bearing on the fact that drinking and driving can cause the death of innocent people, and as such is a completely idiotic way to judge the morality of the act.