Some questions that I wish I knew the answers for.
1. Why exactly are the residents of Gaza overall so young?
2. Where are their parents? Are they mostly dead? Living outside of Gaza? Some combination of both?
3. Which sort of family structures and arrangements are predominant in Gaza? Which efforts, if any, exist there to change or improve those?
4. How often and under which conditions were them allowed, expected or encouraged to leave Gaza (temporarily or otherwise) before the October attacks?
5. What kind of access do (and did) foreigners have to Gaza?
6. What would a representative sample of the thought of everyday Gaza residents be like, regarding their current and desired situations on family, political representation, nationality, personal freedoms, economic perspectives, education and work opportunities?
I think that this last question is crucial for some sort of workable path ahead to be built. I don't think it is too bold to say that Gaza is at least a bit confusing for many of us. Is it a gigantic prison? A refugee camp of sorts? An oppressed, dismantled or collapsed nation? A confused, dysfunctional community where extremists with promises of answers, purpose or just revenge against perceived oppressors receive far more attention than they should?
Additional questions:
7. What is the current economic situation of Gaza? What do they trade internally, what do they import, what do they export? Are their creative and productive efforts mostly aimed internally, or do they have significant ties with other communities?
8. Who has the authority to act as governance there, and to what extent? What are their main goals, obstacles and challenges? Which tools, if any, exist for the larger community to communicate with them and realign those goals periodically?
9. What is known (if anything) about the psychological toll and sociological effects of their rather unusual situation and the results on their hability to eventually adapt to some better environment and circunstances?
To what extent do random Gaza residents even understand what it is like to live under other circunstances? How capable of dealing with those kinds of changes are they at this time? It is my understanding that most of them literally never lived outside Gaza.
I can see that many people may feel incensed against Israel for presumably allowing or even forcing the Gaza residents to be in that situation. I do however think that the reality is quite a bit more complex and nuanced.
If nothing else, we have to take into account that just opening the gates and encouraging the people there to leave and settle elsewhere isn't going to solve very much and will create quite a few hard, difficult matters to be solved in turn.
Those people will need some sort of infrastructure, jobs, education, social organization. Things that largely do not come ready-made and that I sincerely expect that most Gaza residents won't even be currently prepared to deal with even if freely given them.
We do not expect random 19-year old people to be well equipped to build and maintain whole communities. It would be irresponsible to just assume that somehow Gaza residents are much wiser and more capable than most other people of comparable age and life experience.
True solutions would be a scary huge project, necessary as they are. I fear that they are also rather unconfortable for the predominant expectations about so-called "self-determination" and "nations".