I have no doubt that the experience and subsequent experiences I have had are totally real.
Neither do I. I totally accept you had experiences.
Same with alien abductees. I totally accept they had experiences.
Maybe I'm an optimist or naive, but I think that for the most part people are rather honest and sincere about such things.
I don't doubt they had experiences.
What I DO doubt however, is
their explanation and / or interpretation thereof.
I don't doubt for a second that alien abductees had weird experiences that they have
interpreted as being kidnapped by aliens. I don't think they were actually kidnapped by aliens. I do believe that they
believe they were. Which is supported by evidence also, as they pass lie detector tests. They are being honest about their
beliefs.
But beliefs can be wrong.
I totally believe they experienced stuff which they then interpreted a certain way.
I don't doubt their experience.
I doubt their interpretation thereof.
And I think it's mention worthy that you see it as a negative that the people that came up with scientific hypothesis about NDE's (for example) are people that never experienced one. I see that as the exact opposite. I think that puts them in a more neutral and unbiased place, whereas with the believer it is the opposite.