You're probably talking about people that believe what you believe but don't live upright lives and who embarrass the church. Many Christians disavow them, but I call them Christians, since I have no behavioral test for that, just a doctrinal one. You mentioned Westboro Baptist, but they're just as Christian as you are by my definition of a Christian. That's why they do what they do (or is it did now?). They're promoting Christianity as they understand it.
What you describe is rare in my experience. Trump is an exception. He is masquerading as a Christian when he holds up Bibles, engages in public prayer sessions with clergy, and quotes "two Corinthians 3:17." But as I said, he's rare. In my experience, virtually everybody else calling themselves Christians meet the doctrinal requirements to be called that. They also believe that Jesus died for their sins and that there is a god and an afterlife just like you do.
What attention do they deserve that they aren't getting? If the people they help and those they volunteer with thank them, that's sufficient. What you're describing is the kind of thing many if not most people do - certainly most humanists. Do you think people deserve media attention for being decent? If so, why even mention that they're Christian? Why say that Bob the Christian volunteered but not note that Bill volunteering beside him is a humanist?
So what's the good news that offsets all of that bad religion we hear about in the news? Is there more than volunteering in soup kitchens? What do you do for mankind that your atheist neighbor wouldn't do? Promoting religion doesn't count as a contribution to society. That's a contribution to the church only, a self-licking ice cream cone that exists to perpetuate itself to serve the clergy, which is a cushy gig and has been since the priesthood first formed among the ancient Hebrews following the settling of the nomadic tribes and the growth of large towns and cities. The holy man wandering with the nomads also had to work for a living hunting and skinning along with the capable males in the tribe, but once cities formed and large central temples were formed, that became a full-time specialty, and a plum career of no manual labor in the hot sun bringing instant privilege and social status.
I did that as well as I explained to you
here and another poster
here (bottom of post). I ended up walking away from it after about a decade based in that test.
I'm happy for you that you were able to regain control of your life, and there are several of you on RF with that same story, and I begrudge none of them or you whatever it takes to cope, but you seem to feel that walking in your footsteps is a good idea for everybody and that all other worldviews are fraudulent and leave people in a condition like the one you describe for yourself.
Yes, but look at how you lived that life when left to your own devices. That's why you ended up in such an unenviable place. His philosophy is the same as mine - atheistic humanism. I'm sure that whatever worldview you held before zealous Christianity was largely unexamined and morally challenged. Now you have structure and emphatic rules of conduct that you embrace tightly.
Others have followed different paths and have found the world to be a much nicer place that you did and live their lives more fully and more satisfyingly without religion than within it.
You mentioned that you are not here to convince skeptics. I agree. You're here to preach. You aren't interested in the replies you receive. You don't address the points made to you. You just go find another piece of scripture and post it or explain again how good this religion has been for you.
That's fine. RF might, but I don't mind you proselytizing even if you aren't paying attention to the replies. Like you, I'm not here to convince believers of anything. I write to like-minded people, and their words speak to me.