Note: actual LDS Christian beliefs are very different than what "anti-cult" materials will describe. .
As someone who did spend decades in the Moron church, I can tell you that it is, in fact, a cult. Others who have escaped will tell you the same thing. It is a strange thing, and Mormons are not the only cult groups out there - talk to anyone from any cult, when they were in it, they did not realize they were in it. If you don't move, you don't realize the chains kind of a deal... when you escape.... wow.... it is an entire new world, and you realize that yes, it was indeed a cult.
survey from those who spent years and years in the church, then escaped:
Former member survey
↑ we all agree, it is a cult.
Are you in a cult? answer honestly.
Please indicate if you experienced (or witnessed others experiencing) any of the below during your time with the group: *
Sleep deprivation
Financial pressure or control (tithing)
Confession or sharing sessions where your disclosures were later used against you (temple recommend interviews, if failed, everyone knows you cannot attend temple)
An expectation of consulting with the group over decisions that should have been your own to make
A packed schedule, leaving you with very little free time (ask a return missionary about their schedule, ask anyone how much time they spend on their "calling")
Being inundated with teachings or long lectures, whether verbal or in writing (from seminary every morning, to long church meetings, and all the activities, and expected to constantly read and listen to talks)
A high level of self-doubt (not enough time to even think about yourself, you only think anbout the church, and how great the church is,
Lack of autonomy
Homophobia - YES
Gender discrimination (i.e. women and men not being treated as equals) - YES cannot bless, cannot baptize, cannot be bishop, cannot hold the priesthood,
Physical abuse or assault - in my family's case YES
Sexual abuse or assault - YES, learning this is more common than I originally thought.
Spiritual abuse
Emotional abuse
Monitoring of your communications- - don't read anything (including the church's own history) that they did not want you to read.
A lack of access to medical care, including for mental health - encouraged to only use LDS therapists who then report back to LDS church.
A lack of access to full educational opportunities - YES - again, only "church" material is accepted for use. Anything - evidence - against the church - you are supposed to ignore.
Rules around what media you were allowed to consume - YES
Expectations around what you should wear, even in your spare time - funny underwear? YES.
Negative impacts on family relationships - YES, anyone in family who is not "Mormon" is shunned, excommunicated, disfellowshipped - you are not to talk with them, or spend time with them, HUGE pressure to have everyone in family conform (you cannot get to Mormon heaven unless everyone in your family is Mormon)
Restrictions around personal friendships and relationships - YES - keep you soooo busy you only have time for those in the church.
A belief that those outside the group could not be fully trusted - YES as you can see how I have been treated in this thread.
Strict expectations around parenting decisions - YES - others will take your kids from you, they become the mother and the father and the grandparents, the Bishop is the new "Father" of your kids. If you do not indoctrinate your kids, you are shunned.
Demonising of those who had left the group
An understanding from leaders that the group was being persecuted (handcart company = poor decisions from leaders that killed everyone, WORST pioneer trip in American history, people died, not prepared, (and no, they were not "forced" out, it was pure bad leadership).... not persecution - townspeople rejecting polygamy and trying to protect their children from being child brides is NOT persecution.
Not feeling able to ask questions of leadership - YES, to question is "losing faith"... (others questioning other religious groups is great, but do not question the Mormon church...)
An understanding that your group was the only one with access to the truth - YES
A charismatic leader or leadership - YES - it is called "grooming"
In-group language (i.e. terms only understood by those within the group) - YES
*CULT? YES