And not only to gays, but to straights as well. Why would you want to have sex with women if you are not into them?
Shermana,
Your view on women and sexuality is extremely insulting.
And old fashioned. Are you aware that it is 2012 now?
Women and men are able to decide with whom and when they have sex, purity has nothing to do with it.
Why would having sex make you unpure in the first place?
Some of your posts here are against the rule of conduct.
Please be respectful, talking about wear and tear on vagina's is completely uncalled for, all it does is to expose your extreme ignorance on the subject of sexuality.
Maya
In my religion, having premarital sex makes you impure and is written to condemn your soul in many writings, so that's that. I really shouldn't have to qualify my religious belief on the subject it here especially in lieu of the OP and thread title.
What's offensive is people telling me that my religious and cultural belief on the matter is offensive or a "polished turd" or whatnot. It's pretty obvious that this thread is a giant mousetrap that Captain Obvious could spot from a mile away, but what kind of responses are people expecting here? I simply made a comment on why I believe Lesbianism is a good thing, and from my experiences, most girls I know have experimented and like other girls, so this whole Semantic issue about what it means to be "Lesbian" is a debatable yet moot point to begin with.
Now if you find my posts (and religious beliefs) disrespectful, by all means write a post report and explain why the answer to the question I was asked and the statement of my beliefs is against the forum rules of conduct, then the mods could surely teach me a lesson if what I said was against what the rules state. Whether you find my beliefs offensive and insulting and misogynistic is not my concern. As for the "Wear and tear" thing, I'm sorry if anyone finds it offensive but you'll find this is hardly my own view by any stretch.
Accusing me of extreme ignorance because of my beliefs on the matter doesn't exactly change the fact that probably the majority of men also see the same way as I do on this worldwide, but that's for another thread, as I've mentioned several times. I could just as easily say that one who disagrees with my perspective has limited experience on the issue and is more concerned about changing social norms than examining the reality of the situation, so it's not so much about "ignorance" per se as it is about disagreement with one's viewpoint.