Your first post to me on transphobia was rejecting the term in most cases because you've not seen
fear of transgendered. Nowhere in that post did I mention hatred. And though I think hatred of trans is a symptom and example of manifested transphobia, my point is and was that phobia doesn't just mean fear.
Totally willing to agree to disagree though. Don' want to derail the thread anyway.
Edit: sorry started the post then had to walk away for a second. Just saw your post. Never not friends just because we disagree about something.