Truthfully, I only call someone a "bigot" when what they say is coming off as bigoted or, at the very least, very tone deaf. For example, I wouldn't say
@ADigitalArtist is bigoted merely because she prefers partners who have a penis because of her romantic notions of penile-vaginal sex. That's valid. However, I am seeing a number of posts that are implying that trans men and trans women are not truly men or women and that for a straight person to be intimate with us is essentially having gay sex. Those are problematic, to say the least. (Now, if a straight men is having sex with me, a trans man, then that would be gay sex.
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I am also pointing out the heteronormative, cissexual social assumptions that we are all raised with and bombarded with from an early age in this culture, which do have an impact on our perspectives throughout life. So I am encouraging people to question their perceptions and where they may stem from. That is my major goal in this discussion.