Most of what you wrote doesn't describe a "moderate"; it describes an ideologically charged position that denies medical consensus and expertise in favor of ideology and personal preferences. I think it's quite problematic to pass off something so potentially harmful as "moderation"—especially when anti-trans legislation is sweeping the US as we speak.
I agree with the above.
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is therapy according to medical organizations such as the World Health Organization and American Psychological Association. Gender-affirming care is not about hastily or superficially "affirming" someone's gender identity as some claim; it includes an extensive range of interventions and therapeutic approaches.
As states move to restrict certain treatments for transgender youth, experts explain the many types of care, the need for them, and their impact.
www.aamc.org
See above. Also, if we take the above statement as a general rule, then parents and society shouldn't tell children and adolescents to identify as cisgendered either, yet that frequently happens. Should we also reject that?
See above. Medical organizations generally don't recommend surgical procedures for minors, and if a medical professional does so, that's usually done after extensive evaluation by qualified experts. A lot of bone surgeries and other procedures are also quite complicated, but they're not banned for minors because sometimes doctors determine that they're necessary. Why or how is this any different?
You're directly contradicting medical expertise based on your personal opinions. This is a dangerous slippery slope of the kind that has led to loss of life during the pandemic, among other instances.
Then what are they? How are you defining "women" in the first place?
I have never seen any relevant medical or scientific authority claim that "sex is a social construct"; only that gender is. I would agree that some expressions of gender are rooted in biology, but exactly which ones and to what extent is a different question.
I have rarely ever seen someone claim that, but what I have seen and agree with is the notion that some opinions are more likely to enable violence or harm than others. So, for example, denial of the medical consensus on gender-affirming care and saying it should be categorically withheld from minors is a harmful opinion because it can enable bans on necessary and sometimes life-saving medical care.
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www.aap.org
I find this to be context-dependent, but in general, it's definitely a secondary issue compared to the above ones.
I think rejection of established medical consensus is far more harmful than arbitrarily declared pronouns.