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Do trans-activists allow for trans-moderates?

SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
I'm still trying to figure out how a male can "feel" like a female, take hormone therapy to try be a female, dress like a female but still have balls and a penis, which isnt feminine, and be happy.
I’m probably the wrong person to ask, to be completely honest.
Perhaps it would be better to ask what this experience is like to a person who is themselves trans.
I mean there are a lot of experiences that I can’t fathom. That’s just how it is, I guess :shrug:
 

We Never Know

No Slack
Mate, you could live as a penguin and I sincerely wouldn’t give more than two thoughts about it: live life however you please, I sincerely don’t care lol
Ok now I'm going to be a jerky busybody.

Are you male or female? (I think female)

Edit.... My point....

If you are a female. Would you be happy in life if you dressed as a male, portrayed yourself as a male and lived as a male but had a vagina?
You wouldn't be "one of the guys"


I'm male and I know I wouldn't be happy in life as a male if I had a vagina.
 
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SomeRandom

Still learning to be wise
Staff member
Premium Member
See my edit in post #143
Okay. I’ve seen your post
I actually do dress primarily as a male most of the time. I am a “Tom boy,” have been all my life.
I don’t identify as a male by any stretch of the imagination, but I am far more happy dressing in clothing that has been designated as “masculine” in the western culture. I am also quite happy wearing clothing that is primarily feminine in nature. And by this I mean clothing that is considered feminine in the Indian cultural (I am half Indian on my mother’s side.)

Again I feel like your questions would be better suited posed towards someone who is actually trans themselves. Since I can only offer you a cis perspective. Granted one that might not be entirely traditional, but cis nonetheless :shrug:
 

JDMS

Academic Workhorse
Ok now I'm going to be a jerky busybody.

Are you male or female? (I think female)

Edit.... My point....

If you are a female. Would you be happy in life if you dressed as a male, portrayed yourself as a male and lived as a male but had a vagina?
You wouldn't be "one of the guys"


I'm male and I know I wouldn't be happy in life as a male if I had a vagina.

Here. Trans perspective. Which... You know, actually answers your question instead of bothering a cis person who doesn't have the vaguest idea.

I was unhappy to the point of two suicide attempts as someone presenting as female. I was about 100x happier during my transition when I was presenting as male, even without a penis. I am about 150x happier than the original baseline with my penis. I think I would be about 200x happier if I could snap my fingers and suddenly become a cisgender man.

Does that help?
 

We Never Know

No Slack
Here. Trans perspective. Which... You know, actually answers your question instead of bothering a cis person who doesn't have the vaguest idea.

I was unhappy to the point of two suicide attempts as someone presenting as female. I was about 100x happier during my transition when I was presenting as male, even without a penis. I am about 150x happier than the original baseline with my penis. I think I would be about 200x happier if I could snap my fingers and suddenly become a cisgender man.

Does that help?
Informative frube. Thanks for your reply.
 

Debater Slayer

Vipassana
Staff member
Premium Member
Often by people who either have little knowledge of other parts of the world or hold on to American exceptionalist ideas and overlook that many other places in the world are rated higher than the US on multiple freedom indices.

Edit: On reconsidering your post, I see my response would only apply if you had said, "the bastion of free speech," not "a bastion" thereof. Apologies for the misunderstanding.

I've added an edit here after reconsidering your post. Just wanted to make sure you've seen the edit.

@icehorse
 

Yerda

Veteran Member
I wish you were just making a statement about gender identity, But regardless of your intentions, the statement has far broader implications.
Ok. Are they a secret or do I have to guess what you mean?

I'm not attacking the idea of gender identity. Nor am I claiming that sex and gender must be the same.
Fair enough. Maybe I'm misunderstanding.

I'm finding it hard to reconcile the expression that "a transwoman is a woman" is dangerous extremism with the statement that sex and gender need not be the same. All that I mean when I say a transwoman is a woman is that they have that gender identity. Same for transmen.

Doing so also ignores the indelible fact that a person is either a biological male or female. Medical transition does not somehow reformat the individual's composition which was established long before they were born and for which it's irrelevant whether they later experience dysphoria.

While it's all well and good to talk about social acceptance and letting people present how they want, the reality of biology is always in the background.
I don't think I've ever heard a trans person dispute their biological makeup. To be trans would seem to be an implicit acknowledgement of their biology.

When someone says a transwoman is a woman they are, within that very sentence, pointing to the reality of biology. This is the opposite of ignoring it.
 

Yerda

Veteran Member
Please explain how that's so.
To say that this woman is a transwoman, or this man is a transman is to say that they have a gender that doesn't conform to our biological expectations, is it not?

I like the analogy of adoptive parents. To be an adoptive parent is to be a parent but you wouldn't suggest that they are ignoring biology by calling themselves a parent would you?
 

mikkel_the_dane

My own religion
Because our society is built on trust and logic. Language is how we communicate with each other and it's a major vehicle for furthering trust. The word "woman" is a fundamental word in our language. It's central and primary. When you claim that "a trans woman is a woman" you are attempting to unilaterally undo society-wide, agreed upon meanings.

@JDMS and @SomeRandom - I can accept your explanations as to the origins of the phrase.

But trans-activists often claim that sex is malleable, and so the fact that the phrase is used in definitions of trans appears to be a tactic to cast doubt on the medical practice of assigning sex.

No doubt there are rare cases as you mentioned. Rare cases do not undo the basics of biology.

Doing so also ignores the indelible fact that a person is either a biological male or female. Medical transition does not somehow reformat the individual's composition which was established long before they were born and for which it's irrelevant whether they later experience dysphoria.

While it's all well and good to talk about social acceptance and letting people present how they want, the reality of biology is always in the background.

Okay, here we go. Logic is it. The relevant part of logic used by both of you is the classical law of thought as per non-contradiction.
I will use the ontological version here as that is what we are playing:
"It is impossible that the same thing belong and not belong to the same thing at the same time and in the same respect."

Now I will be honest with you 2. This is formal learning that you don't need that to be human, but that you need to understand it if you claim logic as you both do. In other words you are not responsible because I say you are that. You are responsible for be able to use logic, because you do that.

So in practice I will employ reductio ad absurdum both for the contradictions and that you both will in all likelihood will experience cognitive dissonance.
Now for the above definition it has several elements but if effect for thing and respect as to human as a thing,, it is not the tautology that a human is a human, it is that a human is something in a given respect, sense, factor and so on. In the formal sense it is X is Y.
A human is a characteristic observed for the thing human. So far so good.

But now comes the problem. A human is not just one factor. A human is a set of factors, but what we include in that set, is a cognitive social construct.
And here is how it works for we as not you 2 as we define that set and use it against you 2.
We are as humans Y and if you are not Y, you are not humans and in fact you have a disorder, that needs to be removed or you are not humans.
That is what you 2 do.

Humans are a set of factors and some of them are variants that you accept, but others that you don't, because you don't accept that as being human. That is the over reductive logic you both use. A human is Y and if a human is not Y, it is a disorder and not really being a human and needs to be fixed.

And now I am really going to be private for being a variant. I am not trans but for the fact of being a variant I belong to the same class of what variant means for this debate. I have an outward behavior that doesn't match Y. Just as an out of closet trans person, I have a behavior for some cases that doesn't match Y.
The problem for the logic and truth you 2 assume, it is my behavior is not false for logic and truth. But if I internalized your claims, I would end up being harmed, because trying to be Y when I am not, causes harm in me.

So you 2 as representative for normal people are not normal nor abnormal. You are variants like all humans are that, but what you claim is false in the following sense. You can't with objective truth and logic alone establish what it means to be human and you are as a group causing harming in other humans, because you in effect deny that we are humans like you.

And now if you want to call me out as for the rules of the forum, I am going to call you out for in effect claim that I am not a human, because I am not Y.
That is where it ends. Being a human is not just objective truth or your kind of over reductive logic for the category of being a human.
If you cut me, I bleed. If cut you, you bleed. But somehow you are in effect a special positive with truth and logic and I am a special negative with truth and logic. The problem is that it is false.
 

Debater Slayer

Vipassana
Staff member
Premium Member
Because those procedures do NOT change a person's sex. Sex is baked into every cell in our bodies.

Words have power, do you agree with that?

They change a significant part of a person's sex, so much so that they have demonstrated effectiveness as a part of the treatment for gender dysphoria for many people.

I still don't see how these facts change anything about words or their power.

So these definitions are playing fast and loose with fundamental words like "sex" and "woman". If you say sex can be "reassigned" you're making a HUGE claim, and you're probably abetting a plan to decree new definitions.

Language evolves, as does our understanding of various phenomena, including medical and biological ones. When it comes to surgery and hormone therapy for gender dysphoria, the changes can be significant enough to qualify as "reassignment," and they allow a trans person to present as the sex matching their gender.

Why do you think trans-activists make the claim that "transwomen are women"? Because there is power in words. Why not simply say some people are transwomen and just leave it at that? Some people are left handed, some people are dyslexic. (Or lysdexic as I like to say ;) )

You keep referring to "trans-activists," so now I have to ask: who are they supposed to be? Are they a uniform group with the same opinions across the board? Why is "trans activist" seemingly used as a negative term by some nowadays even though it can simply mean advocating for trans rights? If a subset of activists are making specific claims that one wishes to criticize, I'm not sure why activists as a whole group need to be included in the conversation and implicitly attacked as if all trans activists shared the same opinions.

And it's not just "trans activists" who say that trans women are women; a lot of people also do so because they recognize that sex and gender are not synonymous (even though there's overlap between the two).

I get that they're trying to destigmatize, that's good!

But notice how they dance around the definitions. If the "presence of gender variance is not the pathology" then what is?

Or are we saying it's not pathological? So why bring the word into the definition?

I suspect they brought the word into the definition because of the misconception that gender dysphoria is regarded as a pathology by medical professionals—the same misconception we're discussing right now.

And what kinds of things do doctors diagnose if not diseases or disorders or pathologies or conditions.

It sure seems like doctors are spending a lot of time with trans people and bending over backwards to be politically correct about why they're involved..

"Spending a lot of time with trans people"? What does that mean? Would it be a negative thing even if it were true? I'm not sure what your point is here.

So far, you've suggested multiple things that directly contradict professional positions on medical care for gender dysphoria, and now you're also arguing that it should be viewed as a pathology. What's the point of all of this in the first place?
 
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