I always get a bad feeling when someone throws out a quote in an attempt to say something like: "See, you misunderstood my long and exhaustive argument, this is actually what I believe in." You know what I mean?
Yeah, I know what you mean and that's why I don't do it. There's a difference between clarifying and backtracking. I'm clarifying.
If I were in a position to, without any possible negative consequences to myself, prevent an "accident" like the one described in the OP and chose not to do so, I could hardly be described as "good" or to be working "for the good" of anyone in any sense of the word. So, I'm not buying it.
I wouldn't buy that behavior from you either - because you're not God. From your very limited human perspective, you have to make the best and most moral decisions possible with the information you have at hand.
God has a lot more information than you do.
Not to mention the "those who love him" nonsense. Just by the way, does that quote not conflict with, for example, Job's story? Or is that not one of your cherries?
Just a warning - I refuse to continue debating with someone who resorts to sarcasm. Let's keep the tone mutually respectful, shall we? The choice is yours, but now you know my position.
That being said, Job is one of my very favorite books of the bible, and I find the story very inspiring.
Is that because they have a bad attitude and/or do not have faith? Or are there actual, objective reasons for some people's unhappiness/lack of joy/whatever you want to call it? You seem to be of an opinion that that simply does not exist.
People are unhappy for a wide variety of reasons, some of which are pretty unavoidable. Some are DIRECTLY tied to attitude, personality, and poor life choices. Others are beyond their control. But grief and sorrow aren't wrong - they're natural. Even Jesus wept. One can grieve and STILL have that deep peace. One can be filled with sorrow and also feel joy. One can shake their fist in God's face and scream "Why?" to the heavens, and still not lose faith - or the benefits of faith.
But did you not make it a point in your response to the OP to say that "ALL OF IT" (by which you meant the stuff that happened to you/your family) worked out for the best?
If the point wasn't to say that "it all works out for the best", what was it? You even went on to explain exactly how everything seemingly bad that happened resulted in things being better. I don't think I was putting words in your mouth, I think you've reconsidered your position.
Life is a process. Those events happened six or seven years ago and my family's life has slowly improved. Rome wasn't built in a day, right? And yes, I would say that our lives have been enriched by those events, even though it was tough going at the time.
Sorry to dissappoint you, but I'm not reconsidering my position. I'm very consistent about it in fact.
Don't worry, be happy. Much easier, equally futile.
CS Lewis said something very profound when he was an old man. He said, "I finally realized that 99 percent of the things I laid in bed at night worrying about never happened."
Worry is a peace sucker. I prefer to do the best I can and the most I can to improve a situation and then - rest in the peace that I've done what I can, and be vigilant for further opportunities to make a positive difference.
It's a very liberating mind set.
Look, please stop quoting scripture and saying: "this is what I believe." It leaves the impression that you don't really have a position of your own. Otherwise, I promise you I'll start quoting Al Bundy just to even the odds.
I think you're grasping at straws here. No one in their right mind would accuse me of not having "a position of my own" after reading the REAMS of "original text" I've written in this thread!
I will continue to quote scripture, or Harry Truman, or CS Lewis, or Al Bundy, if I think those quotes underscore my point.
Feel free to do the same.
I agree, we work with what we've got. But really, the saying for a theist should go: "When God seems not to care about preventing disasters, praise him at least as hard as before."
Nope, the saying of a theist is this: "You are omnipotent, God, and I am not. You know my heart and my desires. Please give me the wisdom, strength, courage, and willingness to do what I should do in this situation, and to learn what I need to learn."
I can be a better person without such tragic events, I promise.
Actually, I'm not so sure about that. A soft life doesn't build strength of character.
[QUOTEYou know, the whole idea of "getting tougher" and "growing as a person", it's on a different scale than what we're talking about. We don't cut soldiers' legs off to make them deal better with the potential loss of their limbs.]