i think the gist of all this is
the same ethical principles are attained because everyone is the same.
Everyone does not reach the same ethical conclusions or opinions. Some people think that premarital sex is morally OK and others believe it's morally wrong. Some people believe that divorce is OK in any circumstances and others believe it is never OK. Some people believe that late term abortion is morally acceptable regardless of the reason, and others believe it is never acceptable for any reason. Then there are all sorts of opinions in between.
when you say i live my life by my "christian principles" you are setting yourself apart from those who do not have the same belief as you. am i wrong?
Hey, I am a Texan. Am I setting myself apart from those who aren't, or am I merely stating a fact about where I live? It depends totally on context. If this were 1862 that would perhaps be a very important distinction. At a sales conference it's just a location regarding where I work.
i want to know why you feel your beliefs are set aside when at the end of the day everyone, believers and non believers, apply the same principles to their daily lives?
is it because your religion would have you believe you are saved, is that what sets you apart?
What is all this "setting apart" stuff? Those are your words, not mine. My Christian faith works for me, works in my life, betters my mental, emotional, physical and spiritual state of living.
My Christian faith makes me a better person. That doesn't mean it makes me better than anyone ELSE. It merely means that it makes me better than I am without it.
BIG DIFFERENCE.
it seems that's what sets you apart even though we are both capable of doing the same things in the here and now?
I have no idea what you're capable of. All I know is that I am not worth any more than you are and that my life is no more special or valuable than yours - or anyone else's.
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and it's because you "are saved" and believe you will go to heaven is what sets you apart from someone like me?
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Your emotional baggage, not mine. I have no idea where your eternal destination lies. I am not responsible for that, nor am I responsible for judging you.
Carry on.
I do think it's ironic that you seem so hung up on whether or not I'm judging anyone else - and yet you constantly try to judge MY moral position on things. How many times do I have to tell you that I'm not judging your beliefs - that I'm merely explaining my own position as applied to my own life?
so would it be fair to say, your "christian principles" are based upon your belief of being saved which is the foundation for setting yourself apart from the unbelievers?
Ummm, no. I know you want so desperately for me to fit into this Wicked Judgmental Christian prototype that you've built up in your head, but I'm not your girl for that one.
My "Christian principles" provide a framework of moral values and a belief system that guides me to be a better person and to make better choices in life than I would if left to rely on my emotions alone, or even my (humanly limited) "rational thought process." My faith teaches me to seek wisdom and understanding, but when I do not understand something and simply can't seem to grasp it, that in spite of my lack of understanding, my faith is firm. I believe that God will give me understanding and increased wisdom over time - after all, He has done so in the past.
I am not trying to be "set apart" and "better" than "unbelievers." My gosh, I don't even use those phrases - they sound foreign to me. Jesus Himself reached out across cultural barriers and clearly lived a life of love and tolerance for sincerity and honesty in any form, though He did have a pretty short fuse for hypocrites.
I try to pattern my life after His example.