waitasec
Veteran Member
Wow, you and one or two others on this thread are trying SO HARD to "make me" say what I'm simply NOT saying.
You took my words out of context. Here is the REST of what I said:
Now - how you can say that I'm narcissistic or feeling self important based on that, is simply beyond me. I NEVER said that YOU must be "a child of God" and I certainly didn't "exult myself over you."
C'mon, man.
I think you WANT to think that Christians believe that. I think it fits into YOUR ideas and personal baggage about Christianity. And maybe some Christians DO think or believe that.
But I most certainly do not.
I didn't say anything about YOUR blessings being dependent on whether or not you have faith in God/Jesus. I said MY strength depends on my faith in God.
As I said already - you've got your own deal, your own soul, your own beliefs and life to work out. That's totally up to you. You don't need faith in God? OK.
I DO.
My faith, and the blessings in my life which I believe are a result of my faith, don't take anything away from you. They don't exalt me above you. They don't hurt you.
And based on my words, I can't see how you could possibly think that I think I'm superior to you. Frankly, this sounds like some sort of baggage you were carrying long before you and I had this conversation.
If you don't need faith, I'm certainly not saying you can't or won't be blessed without it.
I'm not talking about your faith or lack thereof. I'm talking about mine.
I am thrilled with the way God works in my life. I am excited about how He has guided me through some very rough times. I WILL share this with others, as the need or opportunity arises. I do so because I want to share this joy and these opportunities with others.
I don't offer unsolicited advice - I firmly believe that we generally have to earn the privilege of giving advice and having others actually listen to it. But if someone asks - I will answer. And if someone needs a leader, I will lead. I feel that I have the life experience under my belt to do so.
you did say, "you can be blessed too" didn't you?
i am not attacking you personally. you seem to think that i am. i am not. i am attacking this ideology christians adopt by saying they are blessed.
i don't believe anyone is blessed, nor do i believe god loves you more than i because the probability of any of that is very nill. so please don't think i'm jealous of your blessed life or anything. i'm glad for you, it's the dogma, not you.
when someone says they have been blessed, are they not implying they were granted divine favor? from my perspective it takes someone with an audacious sense to make such an unreasonable claim.
'god thinks i deserve this, therefore i am special...he has favored me.'
you don't see that as having narcissistic tendencies?
sure we all are to some degree, of course. but this is a little different because is it dealing with the supposed divine...which is why i say the believer exults him or herself simply because of being favored by the divine.