this ideal, i feel, needs to be addressed. if a christian say's i'm blessed they are speaking of being favored.
i feel it needs to be addressed because it perpetuated how faith undermines inner strength. instead faith takes the focus off of human capacity and puts it on this ideal of being divinely favored.
i saw a religious piece about a man who was born without arms or legs...
he asked god why, and god eventually answered, after several suicide attempts, "trust me". so now he's has this thriving ministry.
to me, when you are born into that circumstance, i wouldn't blame god for it, i blame chaos and randomness. there is no why. it just is. now you are either going to be a person that falls victim to it and blame god, or a person who actually sees that life is more than having arms and legs and you take it as it comes or you are going to attribute your legless and armless body as a blessing from god and use this "handicap" as a tool to bring faith to the faithless. i can't help but to see how this individual has undermined his sheer inner strength and dignity. he could never follow through with suicide because he knew how that would destroy his family and he knew that would mean giving up. this from a legless and armless boy who was so determined to skateboard as a child, and did. it was his resolve to conquer the challenges we think are nearly impossible to, being blessed is a wrong way of looking at it, we should see it as it is; valiant determination and inner strength and courage.