drivingbackwards
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Even if someone divorces within biblical reasons, Scripture does not clearly teach that you can remarry.
this is not correct the bible says better to marry than to burn with passion. second marriage can be biblical correct.
There is a misunderstanding about what adultery means in the old biblical times.
The problem is found when today's customs are applied instead of the customs of the people two thousand years ago.
Lets see.
The bible states nothing against a man having more than one wife, or a wife and concubines. Please read the explanation below.
You can read of several examples where the bible shows men having more than one wife and God and neither Jesus or the apostles condemn it.
So, in those times a man can have more than wife but he cannot divorce one of them but only in the case when "she" was involved sexually with another man.
Lets clear up this:
1)- A man can marry more than one woman.
2)- A woman can only marry one man.
From here, adultery was considered only in one case with two pints of view:
a)- A married woman having sex with a man that is not her husband.
b)- A man having sex with a woman married to another man.
Of course, the women's movement of today should consider this custom as discriminatory against them, but such were the customs two thousand years ago.
Lets check now about the "churches" after Jesus.
Still, they have the custom of men married to several women in their assemblies anyway, even when Jesus "suggested" that the best way is a man with one woman only, but this is not a commandment.
Evidence?
Lets see.
"If a man seeks the office of a bishop, he desires a good work. The bishop therefore must be without reproach, the husband of one wife..." (1 Timothy 3:2-3)
Yes, this is a requirement only "if" a man seeks for the office of a bishop, but, what about the ones who don't seek for the office of a bishop? The answer is that the rest of men were not required to be the husband of one wife only in order to belong to the assembly.
Then, still the word "divorce" between all this. And lets see another example. King David didn't kill or got divorced from his first wife, he just sent her to isolation. As you can notice, even when King David indeed committed adultery having sex with a woman married to another man, King David however, did not ask for divorce against his first wife because she didn't commit adultery.
Of course, today the customs are different and today a married man having sex with a single woman is considered "adultery", but in the older times "adultery" only implied sex between a married woman with a man other than her husband.
Now well, the same Jesus understood the situation and said that a man can divorce her wife "only" when the wife has been with another man, otherwise, because she got fat, or she lost a leg in an accident, or she stinks, or that he lost interest about her, etc, nothing of these is valid to get such a divorce.
Again, today the customs are different than the customs of two thousand years ago, but for God, according to the bible, is not a sin for a man to have more than one wife. To marry more than one wife is unlawful in many countries of the world but not to God. I guess Mormons are right about this issue after all.
Best wishes.