Hey drivingbackwards,
There are some things in Scripture that are crystal clear. There are other things that are less clear. The church throughout history has had correct interpretations and incorrect interpretations of Scripture, to justify what they believed at the time. For instance, some southern churches used Noah's account about his son Ham to justify black slavery in the United States. When you study the text, there is no biblical justification of oppression and slavery of Africans. It goes contrary to the golden rule of Jesus. Even the KKK has tried to use the Bible to justify their evil beliefs. It is the same with your position on homosexuality. Being born homosexual or hetrosexul has nothing to do with loving God with all of your heart, soul, strenght and mind. Here are three Bible passages to pray and mediate over. When you have a chance, please share how you understand these passages as related to your OP.
The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” But he said to them, “Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.” words of Jesus Christ recorded in Matthew 19:10-12
Now before faith came, we were held captive under the law, imprisoned until the coming faith would be revealed. So then, the law was our guardian until Christ came, in order that we might be justified by faith. But now that faith has come, we are no longer under a guardian, for in Christ Jesus you are all sons of God, through faith. For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you are Christ's, then you are Abraham's offspring, heirs according to promise. Gal 3:23-29
but Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. Early in the morning he came again to the temple. All the people came to him, and he sat down and taught them. The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing her in the midst they said to him, “Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery. Now in the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. So what do you say?” This they said to test him, that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.” And once more he bent down and wrote on the ground. But when they heard it, they went away one by one, beginning with the older ones, and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. Jesus stood up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.” - John 8