Here is the thing. ALL have sinned, you, me, everyone. The penalty for sin is death, physical and spiritual (Hell). Well, Christ paid the penalty, He died. If we believe in Him, believe His death paid for our sins, we are saved. Now, where people get mad is when you point out that, hey, according to the Bible, the Ten Commandments, etc. you have sinned, you are a sinner. The Bible says all have sinned, and if we have broken the law in one small point, we are guilty of all. I personally have broken all ten of the ten commandments. When I stand before God, I will be guilty. The Bible makes it clear that no amount of 'works of righteousness' that I do, which are as filthy rags to God, will take away my sins or make me worthy to be with a Holy God. It says only through trusting in Christ, that He already paid the price for my sins, and by accepting HIS righteousness in place of my own, can I have eternal life, which is a totaly free gift. Now, people get offended when we point out their sins. Well, look, we ALL sins in MANY different ways. I SIN!!! I am saved, yet I will still battle an old sinful nature until I receive my glorified, incorruptible, immortal body. But while in this physical body, I will still sin. You sin, I sin, we all sin. Its just a fact of life. If we told a lie, we are a liar, if we stole we are a thief, if we use God's name in vain we are blasphmers, if we lust after a woman, we are an adulterer at heart, if we hate a brother without cause, we are a murderer at heart, and we have all disobeyed our parents, coveted others' possessions, friends, spouses perhaps, just those alone would make us lying, theiving, blasheming, adulterers and murderers at heart, disobedient to parents, and covetors. And when we stand before God we are guilty. We all need the blood of Christ to pay for our sins. So, it is not wrong to tell people that the Bible, and Jesus, warn us of a Judgement to come, that we must stand before God, but that there is good news, that Jesus paid the penalty for us! If I love and respect you, I am going to tell you the bad news along with the good, and will tell you the truth from the false. I will expose the false teachers, false gospels, false religions, and illuminate the truth. If you are dying of cancer and I am your doctor, I will tell you, and I will offer the cure. If I ONLY OFFER THE CURE, you will say, but, I am not sick, I do not need the cure. Well, we are all sick with sin, and Jesus is the cure. Anyone who teaches otherwise is leading people astray, and at judgement, if you followed them, you will be angry that someone did not warn you and tell you the truth.