The Wizard
Active Member
Most of our behaviour is beyond our control.
If you disagree, then start being homosexual. Now.
Can't do it? I wonder why...
That is a well capsulated myth that also depends on the behavior, circumstances and the person. That is one huge broad brush stroke. Our behavior and impulses are indeed within our control in the longterm- with choice- effort- discipline- guidence- treatment- and development. I would not suggest saying that statement to people that "want and choose" to change things about their own behavior or loved one's. Saying it is beyond control is self-destructive and quite simply irresponsible.
Once, again... self-awareness and choice has been left out of your equation.
As far as the rest is concerned, you are posing another false premises. It is one of their favorite twists to escape the presence of choice again. I didn't have to choose anything because the straight life is the natural order of things around me and in the world. There was no fork in the middle of road sort of speak. On the other hand, you can bet someone was self-aware and choice was also involved if they had other impulses and tendencies, unless they're simply unconcsious of the world and people around them, which would be most likely false or a lie.