Yes x 3 (&1) Eldest Son born 1975, Next Son Born 1990, Daughter Born 1992. The & 1 did not make this world in 1982.
Gosh. Three. Thee reason I ask is some parents offer and tell their children what they need to do but don't ask the child anything the parent feels they can decide on their own. There is more talking
to the child rather than talking
with the child.
I see that pattern here on this thread.
All dishes are made by food that is already available.
We have to decide if it is best to eat them as they are, or cook them, or combine them. Each time we eat, especially if we combine foods, we have to consider how much energy we put in to how much energy we put out.
This is why we cannot do anything together. I would have to accept food already fixed rather than our making food together and
we accepting ingredients together.
We would not combine them. That means what I fix and what you fix would not be unique to themselves but integrated.
We'd have to find another way because like you I don't compromise in respect of combining my food. I rather make another dish together. Collaborate rather than offer already fixed food.
Find another approach.
I would offer that is not necessarily a requirement in belief.
Here is the key. If you want to "combine" beliefs rather than finding a solution we agree on together, then I would be at a lost. If you do combine beliefs, you'd have to believe
something about rebirth. Likewise, I have to believe
something about god. That is the definition of combination. Instead of combining, use a different approach and appreciate we have different beliefs that we can appreciate but don't need to combine to make a good solution to solve the world's problems.
That is the required action to find our Unity. Some important issues are Race Relations and Gun Control...
I do not need to walk away, all we have to do is work together for the betterment of all Humanity. Are you willing to help in some activities? We will and do help others.
If we start with greater peace, then I'm willing to work for it because I believe greater peace influences why lesser peace has not been achieved.
If I keep putting whitening on my teeth, they will look clean but they would not be cleaned. If I went to the dentist first, I can address the actual internal issue and then whiten my teeth if he didn't whiten them all the way.
Since you believe relieve external issues is a foundation for internal issues and I believe the opposite, how would we find a solution without combining (aka compromising) our beliefs?
I do not need to walk away, all we have to do is work together for the betterment of all Humanity. Are you willing to help in some activities? We will and do help others.
If I know that giving the homeless man a dollar would not only help him put food on his plate but actually have a conversation with him and give him money from my heart. I've been around the homeless a long time and still are. A lot of people want conversation and maybe eat out at a restaurant or light meal together. We know the reality of trying to fix external issues like giving money when a job is more productive. That doesn't mean not to give, it just means the internal needs are appreciated more than the external needs depending on the situation and what the
person wants and what I can
do not what I can offer.
I am sorry it will most likely not happen the way you would like to see it to be.
That is why it is hard to talk with people who disagree or have differences. It's a foregone conclusion.
In this matter I can only offer what will most likely happen. The world is already reflecting what Baha'u'llah said would happen and I see no reason, especially when I watch the News, to see that trend will change.
I disagree with Bahaullah's point of view since external issues are stemed from attachment and attachment has nothing to do with a gun and killing but the mental state in which one makes his decision to kill.
Also, action is more productive than offering. That's like JW giving me Watchtowers and waiting for me to say yes. Instead, they invited me to their Hall. They did an action to promote change in my faith not just offer me information to where I have a choice to toss it in the trash.
The only way we can go beyond the time we live in, is if we address the issues that face us now.
That's why we act. However, if you are (above) unwilling or can't go beyond what you offer, then there is no reason to address the issues. Bahai can do it by themselves but working together doesn't mean putting two separate dishes on the table. My view on rebirth and your view of Bahaullah together won't end rebirth or let me go to god just because we work together. We shouldn't expect each other to follow each other's beliefs (hoping every one thousand years we would). Instead, make a new solution of action.
It starts with you. Other religions go beyond offering. I can't work together with you if you just want to put already fixed food on the table.