I don't know if you're old enough to go back to the late '60's and early '70's, but that's when this happened. Deeply spiritual people finding truth in Eastern religions, some finding "Jesus" some going back to nature, some tried the Baha'i Faith.
I was born in the 1960s so caught the tail end of this time through the great music. It wasn't until 1990 that I became a Baha'i. I'm aware that the 60s/70s was a time that many came into the faith. I have the impression that some who entered didn't really understand it so later left.
She needed and expected a more mystical experience. She was the type of person, a free spirit, that would dance and sing, go skinny dipping in the ocean... not the proper behavior of a Baha'i.
Sounds like a more memorable picnic than I've ever had. But then I missed the free love part of the 60s/70s. Too young.
I believe its very important to understand and investigate a religion before joining. Sometimes we need to take the plunge and just do it. The foundation is a belief in Baha'u'llah as the manifestation of God for this day. Some join because they like the social teachings but its a religious with a spiritual emphasis.
Whether they were right or wrong, you can tell me, but they expected a more conservative behavior. The Baha'is seemed to want to present themselves as being well educated and knowledgeable also. They had to be to read Shoghi Effendi's writings. She was the ninth adult in the community, so they needed her to form their first Spiritual Assembly. I went to the picnic she helped plan. It was great. Later some of us went skinny dipping in the ocean... she was the only Baha'i that went.
The Baha'i local assemblies will eventually be Local Houses of Justice with significant administrative responsibilities in regards to their cities and territories.
I suspect you know most of this. You know heaps about the Baha'i Faith, Its a movement that's been of interest to you for a while and that's great. I know the resurrection of Christ is something you are getting your head around. What's the main concerns for you?