Here's a few excerpts from an article,
"Enemies Within: Conflict and Control in the Baha'i Community" The Baha’i Faith’s "publicity campaigns have left the impression, even among detractors, that its beliefs are socially progressive and without a strong doctrinal core... However, Baha’i, like other religions in the Abrahamic tradition, is based on a set of texts that are believed to be divinely revealed. Liberal principles are contained in these scriptures, but so are authoritarian elements. Baha’is, then, can be as fundamentalist as the adherents of any other Western religion."
"The Baha’i Faith views the establishment of world unity as its primary mission... This has created anxiety about the articulation of dissent which, in turn, has resulted in severe limits imposed on individual free expression concerning Baha’i beliefs... Hence, the Baha’i Faith places adherents in a psychological bind by simultaneously upholding liberal ideals, which attract intelligent and creative people, while at the same time exerting pressure towards obedience and conformity. This conformity is enforced by the attitudes of fellow adherents, intimidation by Baha’i officials, and sanctions, including excommunication and shunning, limitation of participation in community affairs, and most recently, simply dropping nonconformists from the membership rolls."
Talking about Baha'i that have dropped out or that have become inactive: "They believe they are joining a broad-minded and tolerant religion and become actively involved in its promotion, only to run up against authoritarian expectations that they find insupportable."
One of the disillusioned: "For Baha'is of my generation, we became believers during the exciting and turbulent Vietnam War years because we saw that Baha'u'llah offers humanity the clearest direction for our inner spiritual growth and our work for saving the planet. Most of my Baha'i friends of my youth have left the Faith. Not because they lost faith in Baha'u'llah or the teachings, but because they were not allowed to express their ideals and activism as Baha'is. And today, over and over again, I hear from friends who are quietly leaving the Faith to pursue their ideals in the peace movement, in the women's movement, in the field of ecology, in music and dance, in religious discipline, because they are not allowed to express their commitment to social change, artistic expression, or a mystical path within a Baha'i context."
It's a long article, but that's enough stuff. Key words: "Authoritarian" "Fundamentalist" "Obedience" "Conformity" "Intimidation" "Excommunication" and a very telling one... "Inactive". The article made the claim that a large percentage of "Enrolled" Baha'is are no where to be found. They've vanished. So, at some point, the Baha'is will have to prove to me their own house is in order.