When it comes to gender and sexuality, it is very much one of my areas. When you say there is no consensus, I know what the consensus and different schools are. I know what groups have what approaches, what they are referencing, and a lot of times even whose doing the funding. The very fact they can look at just one gene and predict sexuality on over 70% of children, it shows there is most definitely something genetic going on. When they look at the brains of homosexuals, and even transsexuals, they find that something genetic is definitely going on. These aren't beliefs. These are concrete facts, such as knowing everything electronic needs a circuit for the electricity to make the thing work.
And not only do I have a vast depth of knowledge to draw on the issue, I have my own personal experience. I was having nightmares about the punishment in hell because of who I am, and that is where I would be going. There is also a lot of shame involved because of the belief that it's a choice. Who would choice it? I certainly didn't, and things would be so much easier if I could have chosen. But I went from not wanting to live to finding direction in life. God was an anchor, and I unlocked the shackles. Hopefully soon I'll be cutting of the remaining one, which is living in such a conservative area that I just don't feel comfortable doing more than passively living.
Basically, people like you make people like me miserable. When I followed your ways, people like you nearly drove me to suicide. And, believe me, it sucks knowing that people like you seeing you one way, while knowing they would avoid you if they knew who you really are. I've even met people who refuse to shake the hands of homosexuals. People like you make life hell for many, and it makes me hope your God is real, because how do you think when you stand before your God, and Satan announces to him that you sins including making some people miserable to the point of hating their lives, with many thinking of, attempting, and some even successful killing themselves because you were a dark rainy cloud that hung over their head? What will your god rule when Satan informs him that you not only made their lives miserable, you drove many away from their faith because of the hatred towards them you showed? And when you are in Hell, we will meet, and I will ask how does it feel? How does it feel, knowing your pain is greater because to you being separated from God is a tragedy?