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Quran & Sunnah
dear sister maro said:Forgiveness is a virtue with no doubt ,and we are ordered to forgive as much as our human nature allows. However , it's said that the virtue is always being moderate between two extremes .And this applys for all kind of morals including forgiveness..and that's why Allah described our ummah (muslim nation) to be justly balanced "umatan wasta "
[2:134] " Thus have We made of you an Ummat justly balanced, that ye might be witnesses over the nations, and the Messenger a witness over yourselves......."
judaism teaches that the eye for the eye , while christianity teaches that one should love his enemies ,and if he was slapped on the face, he should happily and willingly ask for more.
the islamic teachings are more reasonable and more moderate between the two extremes, and that's why it's called the religion of wasateya "moderation"
A believer in god is neither a Revenger nor lax to an extreme level , a believer in allah is a moderate person , and that's the key to understand islam..Moderation
If the early muslims didn't fight for that religion , if they didn't sacrifice and suffer the way they did .... we wouldn't have been muslims , by now . IT's not a shame to fight and stuggle for a moral and good purpose . The shame ,all the shame is to turn your back to the fight ,and to refuse to make any effort or any sacrifices for what you believe to be the truth . And that's why Allah blamed those who called themselves muslims but didn't bother to do anythibg to prove their loyality and faith . They thought "paradise " is easy and cheap and that saying (i believe ) is enough for salvation
And this is exactly what the christians are doing today . They sin day and night , with no feeling of guilt ,because jesus have paid for it . and all they need to do _like abu khalid said _ is to say i love jesus or jesus liberated me ....and the other easy mottos..and may be visit the church on sundays
A christian once told me that the rich don't go to paradise (and i am not sure if it is compatible with the main stream christian belief ), and then i replied that in islam ,both the rich and the poor can go to paradise...the poor go to paradise because he was patient with his povety..and the rich go to paradise because he was thankful and paid his zakat and used the money to please God and spread his word....
Islam doesn't teach us to let go of this earthly life for the hereafter , but to make the hereafter a priortity , and to always remember that this life is nothing compared to it ,
does that mean i should let go of my stressful study ,stay at home praying all the time ,and preparing for my afterlife ?...the answer is : NO ...by being a doctor i can serve my religion.. so iam actually preparing for my afterlife...by being Rich ,i can serve my religion ,so i am preparing for my afterlife...by getting maried and raising good muslims.. i am preparing for my afterlife ... the concept of Ibadah in islam is very very wide and includes every little aspect of life ...that's why muslims don't suffer from the schizophrenia of other faiths...we don't do someting for allah and someting for someone else .. all our actions are for Allah ..all our lives with its tiny details is for allah ..and that's how we fulfill the purpose of our creation... which is (TO SERVE ALLAH ).....if you want to say that islam is a religion of power ,i won't differ with you ..having the power is not a shame ,but how you use the power....It's the destiny of our ummah to face enemies no other nation have ever faced...and no other nation would have ever survived....and unless the Gihad was prescribed in our religion .. our Faith would have been eradicated since day one..
:clap: Masha'Allah baraka Allah fiki my dear sister An excellent great post!!! I wouldn't have said it better!
Alhamdulillah for the bounty of Islam!
May our dear Allah grant you success in this life and the hereafter, ameen!
I'll frubal you once I am allowed
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