AxisMundi
E Pluribus Unum!!!
marriage is not a right, its a priveledge. its like a grant or a gift. a gift is not dictaded by the receiver, but rather the giver. if it is a priveledge of a state, then it requires that state's conditions. if you dont abide by tthem, then you dont get the priveledge.
back in the days of old, to be concidered married, the husband to be would ask for the hand of the bride to be from their father (maybe give him a goat or a cow) and if he gave his blessiing then it became so.
maybe you should go that route if thats all your after.
if its more you desire, like legal state benefits granted by marriage, then you'll just have to play by their rules.
Back in the day, marriages were arranged.
And marriage is certainly a right, it is a Civil Right.
Read the findings of Loving v Virginia, were SCOTUS affirms that fact.