What's dense is putting ones child in an environment that he's just not ready for as opposed to your sanctimonious tirade.
Oh yes. Absolutely. Squirrel away the child in the home because Gods forbid he be there to support his father during an important time.
He shouldn't be there because he has a learning disability? Because he's 17? Please. The only thing going on here is you trying to cover up your BS as reasonable.
Don't bother.