evearael said:
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I'm sorry... I couldn't resist.
I believe that masterbation is morally neutral. It is perfectly natural expression of sexuality. That said, I have no issues with those who choose to refrain any more than I would take offense at fasting... they are well within their rights, and it certainly takes a respectable amount of self-control. As for those who choose to partake, they should be mindful not to take it to the extremes of harming oneself from overuse or addiction.
I agree with everything you've said, Evearael, except I wonder how masturbation can deeply harm anyone even by overuse or addiction? It doesn't have serious physical effects, even with overuse. And I doubt it has serious psychological effects even with most addictions. Although, I can imagine an occasional case of someone masturbating so frequently it prevents them from holding a cubicle job, or causes some other dysfunction in their life, I have seldom, if ever, honestly heard of such cases. What I've heard of such people could easily be urban myth.
I would think that anyone who could seriously hurt themselves by overuse of masturbation eliminated themselves from our gene pool way back in the paleolithic.
BTW, I read in a book on men's health, written by two doctors, that there is at least one study which suggests that single adult males who have good fantasy lives and masturbate frequently are better off mentally and emotionally than single adult males who lack both. So, that's another pro on the pro and con list for masturbation.