Muslims: Keeping the wife "in line"

[Godobeyer]

does christian and jew scriptures allow polygamy? and also marriage with a muslim?

edited : I am not sure about mariage with muslim man ,
but i guess it's ok, with polygamy .

 

[Godobeyer]

good wife means what? those who allow their husband to collect wives?

good wife mean ubmission wife and to her husband as God order her .
God allow to us to marry more than wife .

 

[nameless]

Don't forget to obey every command and accept love slaps willingly

they gives food to eat, so has right to beat

because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them.

 

[MysticSang'ha]

because maybe the non-muslim would obey me ,instead of Muslimah .

This is the reason why I'm calling Poe.

Your reasoning is all over the place and wildly inconsistent with basic tenets.

opcorn:

 

[Godobeyer]

they gives food to eat, so has right to beat

, good pick , acuatly is also if they give us food , we had the right too .
but only in one case , INSUBORDINTE WIVE , and by SOFT BEAT .

edited : btw , that was a translation of Quran

because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them.

 

[nameless]

, good pick , acuatly is also if they give us food , we had the right too .

excellent !!

 

[Breathe]

but only in one case , INSUBORDINTE WIVE , and by SOFT BEAT .

I've never understood what is meant by pro-beater's "soft beat". Why would a light beating be acceptable, either?

 

[beenie]

There is no such thing as a "soft beat", especially if it's to be done after all other avenues have been tried. Are we to believe that a man has so much control after his "insubordinate" wife has taken him to this level? After he's tried to talk to her, after he's separated from her bed, after he's practically left the home...THEN he is going to use his self-control when she tells him to **** off and "lightly" or "softly" beat her?

 

[nameless]

but only in one case , INSUBORDINTE WIVE , and by SOFT BEAT .

what if you find her with another guy, you beat her soft?

 

[Draka]

Let him marry a woman who has been abused before and who will not take it any more. Like myself. First time he would raise his hand to her to "put her in line" she would take that hand and break it upside his own head. I'd be proud of her for doing it.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

So, in all these posts, in all these threads, what have we learned? Godo badly wants to legitimize his desire to smack women around, and nobody else agrees that Islam provides this justification? Is that the gist of it?

 

[Enlighten]

That pretty much sums it up!

 

[Godobeyer]

what if you find her with another guy, you beat her soft?

cheat on me ? no i will divorce her .

 

[Enlighten]

cheat on me ? no i will divorce her .

after the soft beat or would you not soft beat at all, just divorce?

 

[Kerr]

I've never understood what is meant by pro-beater's "soft beat". Why would a light beating be acceptable, either?

I suspect he means a light slap.

 

[Archie00000]

I suspect he means a light slap.

Spare the rod, Spoil the child:

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I suspect he means a light slap.

Oh, that's okay then.

 

[Kerr]

Oh, that's okay then.

I didnt say it is ok, just that I suspect that is what he means by "soft beat".

 

[Kerr]

Spare the rod, Spoil the child:

What do you mean?

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I didnt say it is ok, just that I suspect that is what he means by "soft beat".

So you don't think it's okay to not slap your wife?