Pickin up chicks! (or Dating)

[angellous_evangellous]

I will be back in a bit. Hopefully, I can get some advice from WOMEN!

There really is nothing better than giving a feller advice from the safety of your own baborama.

Best of luck and happy hunting.

 

[angellous_evangellous]

Oh the innuendos! The hotdog is one step too far!

"Choking on your own hotdog" is not an innuendo. If you see one, please do not share.

 

[Bangbang]

Pass out flyers asking women to E-mail you with a pic and a don't forget to tell them you net $200,000/year. Remember she needs half of that. Ok Ok.....if you want a real nice babe without the work and headache that goes with it.....just pay for it. Thats what I do. I found that this is the easiest,safest,and least expensive. If you want some help with this method feel free to PM me.

 

[Atheist_Dave]

Hahaha, you're aweful!

 

[Bangbang]

Hahaha, you're aweful!

.........but I am having a great time.

 

[mrs_angellous_evangellous]

Where's the best place to meet other single people? I've heard the laundramat was good.

Can't say.

What makes a good date? Dinner & a movie? Walk in the park?

Mix it up

What does everyone think about younger vs. older girls (guys)? I'm 30.3

Be happy with what you get. Stay away from girls younger than 18 and older than 55 (I hear that they "lose" something after 55). Personally, a girl under about 25 completely turns me off when she opens her mouth (to speak).

What about these internet dating services? I think they're a load. Anyone have any luck?

Can't say.

Do women really prefer jerks? I'm kind of nerdy and I don't know if a nerdy jerk would be very attractive.

No. Women do not prefer jerks. Unless, of course, they don't want a relationship of any length.

Should I "just be myself"? A friend told me that I shouldn't talk about nerdy things to women I'm interested in. I'm convinced though that it doesn't matter what you talk about but how you carry yourself.

By all means, be yourself!

I have next to no style when it comes to clothes. Any advice there?

If you've asked this question, you need help. Trust me. Find two wildly different lady friends to set you up.

All I can say is Daddy knows what he's talking about! :hugkiss:

 

[mrs_angellous_evangellous]

.........but I am having a great time.

Ok... I'm not reading the rest of this thread. You boys have a good time.

 

[Atheist_Dave]

You are very wise for not reading it, your husband has been saying he looks good in a cocktail dress! *sits back and watches the domestic*

 

[mrs_angellous_evangellous]

You are very wise for not reading it, your husband has been saying he looks good in a cocktail dress! *sits back and watches the domestic*

Well he's right. He does look good in a cocktail dress. I have pics...:curtsy:

 

[Bangbang]

See everyone.....she came back and posted one more time.........so remember. No means yes and yes means no. Be persistant and you may get what you want. Bang fakes seizure.

 

[Buttercup]

Don't think my help is needed here. Bang Bang has pretty much written Kama Sutra 2 for you.

Dave, my chimp is sooooooo much hotter than your chimp. You couldn't hook up with an armadillo with yours!

 

[Mister_T]

Well, I'm now single (relax ladies ). My wife and I seperated and I thought it would be good for me to get some dating tips from the guys AND gals (I know, "stay off of the religious forums! He he hehehe"). So any advice would be greatly appreciated. Here's some questions I had in mind:

Where's the best place to meet other single people? I've heard the laundramat was good.
What makes a good date? Dinner & a movie? Walk in the park?
What does everyone think about younger vs. older girls (guys)? I'm 30.
What about these internet dating services? I think they're a load. Anyone have any luck?
Do women really prefer jerks? I'm kind of nerdy and I don't know if a nerdy jerk would be very attractive.
Should I "just be myself"? A friend told me that I shouldn't talk about nerdy things to women I'm interested in. I'm convinced though that it doesn't matter what you talk about but how you carry yourself.
I have next to no style when it comes to clothes. Any advice there?

Thanks in advance!! :help:

I'm always happy to share wisdom:
1) Every place is an oppurtunity to meet women. The mall, bars, grocery store, etc. You just gotta make them oppurtunities. Personally I find waitresses are easy to conversate with. I've dated a few. Dance classes are also good because you HAVE to interact with women. :dan:

2) Me personally, I don't do anything cliche' like movies or dinner. At least not on the first date. I always try to be original and set myself apart from the rest of the guys. First couple of dates I usually have conversation at a coffe shop or some place were there's not going to be a lot of loud noise or distraction. I try to get the know the person and see if she's what I'm looking for.

3) I'm 24 so I my age range varies. I do know a lot of younger girls like older guys.

4) Internet dating services work. I met my last serious relationship on there. She lived in my area. Even talked about marriage at one point. Unfotunatley for me I got screwed the worst possible ways imaginable....which I'm still feeling the effects of (Maybe I'll share it sometime). But, I'm giving internet dating another shot. But I've notice since I tried internet dating that it's friggin expensive now. If you're willing to shell out the cash, then it's definatley worth while. I don't pay anything. I'm on webdate.com. Internet dating definatley works

5)Jerks? No. Confidence? Yes. Women go for jerks a lot because jerks are confident about themselves and don't act insecure. You've gotta adopt the mentality that you're are the hottest thing walkin the earth. Don't act needy. BIG turn-off.

6) What you said is right. It doesn't matter what you talk about, it matters how you carry yourself. Be yourself and be comfortable with who you are. Don't give yourself a label like nerd. Chicks will like you regardless of what you like or what you do. And if they don't, show 'em the door
There was a phrase I heard somewhere that said "It's a womens job to try and change you. It's the mans job not to let that happen" Hot women especially try to do this. Don't cater to them too much and always do things on your terms.

I play videogames, read comics, watch Kung- Fu movies, you know.....all of those "nerdy" things. I don't have a problem with women. Why? Because I'm me and I'm not going to stop what I like doing just to get some tail. Take me or leave me.

7) Dress sharp. Always try and look your best. It's not so much what you where but how well you keep up with yourself. Nice clothes don't hurt though.

Most importantley, just be yourself. Don't rush into anything and just let things happen. Don't treat women different than anyone else. Remember your a stud. Or as I like to say "I'm prime rib and all of these other guys are McDonald's Happy meals. You can have the best dinner you can imagine, or you can play with the free toy"

 

[Atheist_Dave]

Mine isn't a chimp. Its a Bonobo ape actually. The gentle version of Chimps, I saw a programme on them the other day, made me cry! They are so peaceful, and get this, they use sex as a kinda hand shake! We can learn alot from these creatures....

 

[Buttercup]

they use sex as a kinda hand shake!

Nice to meet you too!

 

[Atheist_Dave]

Haha, I'm serious, even the kids do it! A day with the Bonobo's is like a full on orgy!

 

[Faint]

Where's the best place to meet other single people? I've heard the laundramat was good.

Depends on what you want. Sex? Bars and dance clubs. Relationship and then sex? College campuses are excellent. Malls. The beach (but that depends where you live I suppose). Basically anywhere that you can find large numbers of girls.

What makes a good date? Dinner & a movie? Walk in the park?

Avoid movies on a first date, since you won't be able to talk during the show. I tend to go for brief dates (about an hour long) when I'm still getting to know the girl. A coffee shop is good--you can take your time, and neither of you will be focusing on any potentially messy food. Make sure it's a public place so she can relax around you. Then make plans for a good first date. This can be anything that you think she will really enjoy (preferably something you both like). But try to spend some money on her--nothing extreme, just enough to let her know you a) have a job, and b) aren't cheap, and c) got that whole "provider" thing down cold.

What does everyone think about younger vs. older girls (guys)? I'm 30.

Younger is much better in my opinion. I've had both. I'm 27. I've been out with 30+ year olds. I'm currently dating a fine 19 year old who I adore. I always prefer the energy, optimism, and excellent figures of the young women.

What about these internet dating services? I think they're a load. Anyone have any luck?

I have a lady friend who uses match.com successfully. She's shown me the profiles of guys who contact her--lots of losers so your competition (though numerous) will still be minimal as long as you remain repectful, sauve, intelligent, etc. But for a man, I'd recommend avoiding online dating--become adept at being direct with the girls you meet in person. You won't regret it.

Do women really prefer jerks? I'm kind of nerdy and I don't know if a nerdy jerk would be very attractive.

Girls like nice guys who look like bad boys. Some fall for a**holes, but only because the a**holes have some nice qualities (at least at first). What I find works well is having an edge. Be your own person, not a lap dog.

Should I "just be myself"? A friend told me that I shouldn't talk about nerdy things to women I'm interested in. I'm convinced though that it doesn't matter what you talk about but how you carry yourself.

That depends on what girl you want. If you want a nerdy girl, talk about nerdy things. But really, even nerdy things can come off as cool depending on the way you approach them. All around though, I'd advise doing less talking about anything and more listening. Girls will talk enough for the both of you.

I have next to no style when it comes to clothes. Any advice there?

Watch popular television--see what the hip 30 year olds are wearing.

P.S. check out this book...Secrets of Seduction By Brenda Venus. I read it way back in high school. Excellent advice from a Playboy Playmate.

Good luck!

 

[Scarlett Wampus]

I will be back in a bit. Hopefully, I can get some advice from WOMEN!

Don't take it. If you do you'll end up a mindless zombie slave of the siren overmind.

*Looks at posts so far*

Don't take it from men either.

Seriously though, sorry to hear about your split. It isn't easy to adjust back to singledom after time out.

 

[Ormiston]

Great posts guys (and gals)!! You are all gettin me fired up! I'm relaxing with some friends and we are laughing our a$$es off, but the info is priceless. I'm 30 with a lot of time on my hands and some girlfriends sounds pretty nice right now. Keep the info comin cause I plan on taking it to heart. For now though, back to the beers and Dazed and Confused. 'Night!!!

You have given out too much Karma in the last 24 hours, try again later.

Damn
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[Bangbang]

Try these lines. Some of these actually worked for me and one of them worked on my wife of 28 years.

WARNING!!!!!! Very explicit language.

 

[mrscardero]

Where's the best place to meet other single people? I've heard the laundramat was good.

Park, library & coffee shops. I don't recommend bars, because been there, done that. Not a place to meet women.

What makes a good date? Dinner & a movie? Walk in the park?

Determine by when you talk to the lucky lady. Ask questions about what she likes, what she does on her spare time, what kind of movie she likes.

cardero took me to see 'What Women Want' not knowing I would rather see Pink Flamingos :verymad: .

What does everyone think about younger vs. older girls (guys)? I'm 30.

Age should not matter. I am 27 and cardero is 40. If you are reading this sweety, it's ok. You are still a kid at heart

Same goes for if the woman is older.

What about these internet dating services? I think they're a load. Anyone have any luck?

Trying it now. No luck. The only thing I think I am doing wrong is not paying to meet anyone on line.

Do women really prefer jerks? I'm kind of nerdy and I don't know if a nerdy jerk would be very attractive.

My EX was a jerk, but it depends on the woman. She will like you for who you are.

Should I "just be myself"? A friend told me that I shouldn't talk about nerdy things to women I'm interested in. I'm convinced though that it doesn't matter what you talk about but how you carry yourself.

You should always be yourself. Women like smart men.

I have next to no style when it comes to clothes. Any advice there?

Wear what you are comfortable wearing. I got cardero a t-shirt that has Jacco on the front. He likes Jacco. He wears it a lot. I also got him a Betty Page T-Shirt, but he won't wear that even though he loves Betty Page.