But that's my point. I don't work for money. I need money to work. And I work so that I can help others and do what I want to with my life. So yes, it is partly for self-reward that I'm working, but I'm also doing this to help others. By definition, it is selfish to do the right thing only to get the reward out of it, and it says nothing about yourself to do the right thing because you'll go to hell if you don't.
If you do the right thing to get paradise in the end, then you're really only ever out for yourself when doing the right thing. So even if you do volunteer work, help people out whenever you can, etc, if the reason you did that was to get into paradise, then you haven't done anything because you want to help others - you've ultimately done it for yourself.
And if you do the right thing because you're afraid of getting sent to hell, it'd be like doing what you're told to do by a masked assailant who's pointing a gun at your head. Again, you're not doing the right thing because you genuinely want to. You're doing it because the choice of doing the wrong thing is taken away, which ultimately says nothing about your character. At all.
This is why it says so much more about your virtue if you do the right thing without belief in paradise or hell. With this mindset, there is no hope of a reward at the end. There is no threat of eternal pain. You're doing the right thing for the sake of doing the right thing, and because you genuinely want to do the right thing. This says much more about you than anything else.
If Allah sends altruistic people to hell for not believing in him, or for doing things that He might disagree with, then He really is a tyrant. Heck, if Allah sends anyone to a world of pain, anyone, then He is not "most-merciful", and He most definitely is not "perfect" - because even I would not do such a thing. And if you're saying that He can't help but send these people to hell, because they chose it, then you're limiting his power, and therefore according to you, He is not all-powerful.
Eselam, what was the purpose of this thread? You've said "why would non-muslims care if Allah sent them to hell". But you've also said in retrospect that you don't even know if Allah is going to send non-believers to hell, that it would be up to Him to make a "fair" judgement (as if it would be "fair" to torture anyone for eternity). Well, if you don't know if non-believers are going to hell, then why make the statement? Haven't you, as a human, made an imperfect judgement about another person in doing so?
This might turn to be a very good conversation. I really appreciate genuine discussions and genuine posts. Just so you know, i like your post alot, although i pretty much disagree with some of what you have said.
Regarding Eselam, i guess his main goal was to ask you some questions to think about. He wanted to know--for instance--if i'm not mistaken, why would an atheist care if there was Paradise and Hell if they don't even believe in the Creator himself and the hereafter in general.
Although the concept of Paradise and Hell are what people get to expect at the hereafter, but it would be a fatal mistake to assume that believers are doing good deeds just because they want to get a ticket to Paradise. I think there is a prejudice in thinking in that way.
For instance, when a non-Muslim do good because of his morals, personal beliefs, or just because he feels good about it, that means he took that thing as a motivator, or the source for this good doing. The same with Muslims, their source is the love of Allah, and the believe in what he encouraged--but didn't force--us to do.
There is a difference between being a Muslim, and being a believer "Mu'min". The later is a higher statues achieved through true belief in God, his Apostels, Books, etc.
It's good that humanity no matter what their faith is are doing good to each other, because Allah has stated in the Quran that if we didn't had that mercy amongst each other, earth would be really ruined. A non-Muslim is not someone bad by default, and a Muslim is not a good person by default.
The concept of obeying God, Paradise, Hell, is simple and yet complicated to grasp even by me sometimes, although i do believe in them.
Sometimes we oversimplify the position of religious people and why they take a certain stance, not another.
As a non-Muslim, whatever you might do, let's say a good thing you have done, it might change the lives of many people, and they might get a better life because of what you have done, and that might turn around to be for your own good (Karma?).
Anyhow, what we do in this life and our own simple scale of good and bad is not equal to that one of the hereafter.
What is your purpose in life? why you exist? why you think you are better than angels who never sin, who never do bad deeds? Why you think we came to this life? why you think there is an end to the life of each one of us?
There is something bigger than what we can see by our materialistic eyes. We have to see by our hearts first in order to see right.
Is our purpose in life is just to get a job, help some people, then die?
Or there is something bigger than that?
I can understand the level of sarcasm some might have toward concepts like Hell, and i know that many of you at some points of your lives, did believe in such a thing, then have abandoned it later on.
Just because we can't fully understand something, that doesn't give us the right to ridicule it.
What is good and what is bad? why do we have to obey a god? Why should we care? It's not even logical, some might say.
I do understand all these questions and i don't claim to know all the answers because it's a very big topic to handle in a single post. I think we will get some answers as we go in this thread.