ecco
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Why do you consider that uptight? I mean why do people have to have sex out of wedlock?
The real question is, why not have sex out of wedlock?
Humans become capable of reproducing around age 13. That also means that sexual activity is pleasurable from at least that age.
Why should ones marital status allow or deny them those pleasures?
Is masturbation frowned upon by your religion? Why? Ditto for all other forms of sexual activity - why?
I never had sex before I was a Baha’i because I always believed that it was sacred, reserved for marriage, and I was not raised in a religious home.
You do realize that the word "sacred" only has religious connotations.
What is sacred about sex? Is kissing sacred? Is dancing sacred? Is SCUBA diving sacred? Is hiking or skiing or going to a movie or fine dining sacred. All these things are pleasurable. What makes pleasurable sex sacred?
“The Bahá’í teachings on sexual morality centre on marriage and the family as the bedrock of the whole structure of human society and are designed to protect and strengthen that divine institution. Bahá’í law thus restricts permissible sexual intercourse to that between a man and the woman to whom he is married.”
Sex is an important part of marriage. It's far better to find out is two people are sexually compatible before marriage.
Homosexuality is prohibited by Baha’i Law. However, there are Baha’is who are homosexual and the Baha’i Faith administration does not ostracize, berate, or belittle homosexuals. If a member was openly declaring that they are a homosexual and a Baha’i, as in a gay bar, they might lose their voting rights, but they would never be ostracized from the Baha’i community.
Why? Some people are born heterosexual, some are born homosexual and there are countless shades between. All are natural. They are only frowned upon because of religious edicts.
Hypocrisy.An unmarried couple living together would not be ostracized either
The caveat is that they are only “absolute truths” for the ages in which they are revealed (called a religious dispensation). Truth is never absolute because more truth is always revealed by the next Messenger of God. Religious truth is never ending... It evolves over time just as scientific truth evolves over time.
No. Truths are truths. The knowledge of science changes over time. Religious/societal morals change over time.
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