Ray's Journal

[VoidCat]

Well, my son bullies adults in authority, mostly. He usually leaves kids alone.

I think its a control thing. He bullies his dad a lot. I won't tolerate it if I hear it.

So he got wise, and started spam emailing his dad, until his dad tattled on him.

It could also be an autonomy thing. many autistics may have strong feelings of autonomy to a fault that authority can be seen as imposing on autonomy thus needing to be fought. Kids also lack control over most their life so combined with the autonomy thing they might not know how to disagree respectfully with adults or go against authority in a socially acceptable way so they attack through bullying. Autistics also have strong internal rules and very rigid to a fault and unbending as a result. this is often a good thing but can also be a huge issue in many cases. Like an autistic person might think adults follow the rules too-they dont must attack them to get back at them. Again all these factors together can cause an autistic kid to attack adults. I'm not saying thats what is going on. but that might help you with figuring out whats going on

 

[VoidCat]

News on my friends family on asheville- they ok. Living with said friend. Lost everything but alive