I have not back-peddled at all. I've been saying the same darn things over and over and over and over again to the point I feel like slamming my head on the darn desk. It's like you all want me to be saying something else so very badly, you're twisting what I've said and shoving words in my throat the way you think other kids are going to shove peanut butter down allergic kids' throats.
Twisting words? Pot, meet kettle.
I've gone over the risks from peanut products on the premises, as opposed to only loose peanuts. I have argued against your contention that there is zero risk from peanut butter. When I brought up the possibility of bullying, and others have brought up the possibility of swapping lunches, I saw your argument change toward conflating the bully issue into something it wasn't.
I haven't seen you backpedaling so much, but I've seen your ire jump around from sub-topic to sub-topic. You've also taken a whole heck of a lot personally, when nothing has been directed personally toward you.
And no, I would not change my mind. I'd have no issue sending my kid to school if they were allergic to nuts and a whopping 10% of the other kids there were scarfing down peanut butter sandwiches. I'd teach my kid what not to eat, to wash their hands, keep the proper people apprised of their condition, and take the appropriate steps necessary. Banning someone else's kid from eating their own lunch is not necessary in my opinion.
That's your right to send your child to school with a severe peanut allergy. If you would be confident in the staff, the students, the teachers, and the administrators to be able to ensure a safe atmosphere. And if you would be completely confident in your childs ability to discern what exactly to put into his or her mouth as young as 5, then good for you.
I don't think it's unnecessary. I can see the reasoning behind it. In the long run, it's a minor inconvenience. I don't see it as a ridiculous overreaction and infringement on other peoples rights to have peanut butter. The impression I got from your posts is that you do see it as an infringement on the majority perople, that the ban supporters are over-zealous and reactionary, and that there is zero risk of a reaction from peanut butter.
If those were not your arguments, I apologize for misrepresenting you. But it was the impression I was getting from your posts. There's no need to slam your head down on your desk, D. I support a ban if an establishment decides it's best for their facilities. I also support an establishment that chooses NOT to ban, but takes other measures.
The point is to minimize the risk. Where it seems you and I disagree is the presence of risk from peanut butter. I stand by my position of supporting the peanut ban. YMMV.