You are attempting to suggest that God's laws are not objective (applicable in all places and at all times).
I'm not only
attempting to suggest it,
I am stating it. Many people don't recognize God. Are you going to force God's law on them, even as you're afraid that the gays are going to force you to solemnize their marriages? See the double standard you're proposing? It's OK for you to force homosexuals to the back of the theological bus who aren't Mormon, because
you're right. It's not OK for them to force
you to do something, though. No. God's laws are
subjective. They apply only to those who accept them.
By saying there is no right or wrong, you are saying that all right and wrong is purely subjective and that depending who is in power, you could be right today and wrong tomorrow.
Isn't that the way it works? The rule used to be that homosexuals couldn't get married. Now they
can. Used to suck to be them; now it sucks to be you. Our job is to stop making everybody else suck.
God's grace will not save people in their sins; but only from their sins.
Who's sinning here? the Gay for being Gay, or the Elder who refuses to sully himself by being helpful?
If you believe that God will save everyone no matter what they do in mortality, I think will are sadly mistaken.
...Because God always holds grudges.
If, on the other hand you believe that God will save you for simply verbally confessing His name, you are mistaken.
I think God saves everyone.
For He says that not everyone that says Lord, Lord will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. If you think it is by grace alone without any effort towards repentance on your part, you are mistaken.
How do you know that, when standing face-to-face with the Ultimate Reality that is God, everyone
won't see the error of their ways and turn toward that reality? Or do you simply not have any faith in humanity to recognize reality -- or in God to save?