Trailblazer
Veteran Member
I get it alright, you are blaming people for their suffering, judging them.You’re still not getting it. Think of it like this: if you became handicapped in some way, you wouldn’t ever “get better.” You’d always be handicapped. Some people wallow in that handicap, let it consume them, become that handicap, and it ruins them. Others learn to live with that reality and find joy, because they don’t let it consume them.
You are judging those people because you are saying that suffering is a choice, that everyone could learn to live with whatever their handicap is and find joy.
Some people might wallow in their handicap but not all people wallow in it. That is what you are missing. Whenever you make generalizations about entire groups of people, you are committing the fallacy of hasty generalization.
Sometimes suffering is avoidable and sometimes suffering is unavoidable. To generalize about all people and to say it is always avoidable is illogical as well as cruel and insensitive.There will be pain, there will be grief, loss, regrets, disappointments, accidents, injuries, and illness. But suffering doesn’t have to be part of any of that.
By virtue of your attitude, you are being very judgmental of people who are suffering, blaming them for their suffering.
Matthew 7:1-3 Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
No, that is not the definition of compassion.Compassion? Compassion is helping others find the joy in the midst of sorrow.
compassion: sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.
compassion meaning - Google Search
Sometimes that is possible to help people but for many reasons that does not always work. Some people can go to counselors for years and years and never be helped and they might even take drugs that do not help. As for having family or personal friends who can help, not everyone has someone who can help them and even if they do, not everyone can be helped.
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To say that you know that everyone can be helped and they instead choose to wallow in their situation is cruel and insensitive. You do not know the situation of everyone in the world and you do not know other people better than they know themselves.
66: O EMIGRANTS! The tongue I have designed for the mention of Me, defile it not with detraction. If the fire of self overcome you, remember your own faults and not the faults of My creatures, inasmuch as every one of you knoweth his own self better than he knoweth others. The Hidden Words of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 45
Clearly you have a bias and you are not going to give it up, but don’t pretend to know about mental health issues because you are not trained in the field.