Should I try to set him into a mania and just let him whoop my *** then and there? (Being serious. I would do it if it would help.)Yeah, someone pretty much has to be actively on the verge of suicide or doing harm to another to get committed. And then to get someone committed can be an uphill battle itself due to bed shortages.
My getting partially hospitalized was telling my doctor (in Indiana) I was driving home one day and saw an ambulance speeding down the road with its light and sirens on amd (my exact words to her) I felt compelled to create a great scene of irony with a tool normally used to save and preserve life being used as an instrument to end a life.
And that got me a step inbetween being fully committed and intensive out patient therapy (you actually move up to IOP in this program).
But since Ares is a kid, short of him attempting suicide or your bringing him in while he's raging their hands are probably going to be tied at the hospital.
Lots of clinicians haven't heard of partial hospitalization. Perhaps the doctor and insurance could do some sluething to find some lesser used route of treatment to get him seen one way or another.