That's a difficult challenge -- but (I think) a fair question.Late response here, and perhaps this is a topic for a different thread but...
I don't think there is any such thing as "LGBTQ+ culture".
Can you clarify what you mean?
People who are marginalized do, I think you will agree, tend to gather together more or less for protection. Think of all the "chinatowns" in cities everywhere, or the "gay ghettos" (in my city, the gay ghetto was centered on an area called "Church-Wellesley Village"). Immigrants tend to cluster together -- so they can feel comfortable speaking their own language around others, or just to feel like they're "at home." Again, in my town, we have our "Little Italy," "Little Portugal," "Greektown," and so on.
Then, when the marginalization begins to break down, more and more people leave these enclaves and become more mainstream. In Canada, for example, being LGBTQ has been so accepted for long enough that the gay village is more and more inhabited by younger straight folks, while the gays -- like me -- have moved on. I personally haven't been in a gay bar or club for a couple of decades -- and yet though most of the people I socialize with now are straight, some of them (those like me) are still gay.
This, in my view, is a good thing. I don't want there to be segregated people based on some characteristic or other. I don't want a queer culture -- I would just like a society in which John and Anne can get married, and so can Fred and George, or Maggie and Elizabeth, and nobody would think anything of it.
But here's what's happening -- the primarily Christian right in the U.S. (and just beginning again elsewhere) is trying to push us back into our ghettos, our closets. It's not that we don't like them, or don't want to be part of their world -- it's that they don't like us, and don't want us anywhere near their world. Same thing with everybody else: if you see your neighbours as the "black couple next door" rather than just "the neighbours," then you are on the way to marginalizing them. When you see the two women in the house across the way as, "the local lesbians" rather than "members of our community," you're on the way to driving them away.
Keep that up, and what would I do but return to a community in which I felt safe? And what would drive me there? Nothing more than the prejudices of those who don't want me to be part of their world.
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