To be fair, historically speaking, gay people were often literally sought after. They wanted to be left alone, government wouldn’t let them in many cases. Or allowed them to do so for a while because they had money and fame I guess and managed to not annoy the right people for a while. (see the infamous case of Oscar Wilde. )
After a while it does become something of a necessity to just go, screw you! I’m here, out loud and proud.
Because if busybodies won’t let you live, how else can you tell them to back off?
I’ve been accosted occasionally simply because people assumed I was gay. I’m not even gay!