I suspect some sexism is at work in some judgments.I call bogus on this. What you call “uncontrolled scream” could as easily be called resolute passionate self defense. An innocent man wrongly accused could certainly be forgiven for being perturbed. The fact is no matter how he had acted some of his critics would still complain. If he was vociferous they would say he was unhinged, if he sat dispassionately they would say he was cold and obviously guilty because an innocent man would speak up passionately. Simply put, your mind was made up before the committee hearing and Judge Kavanaugh could say or do nothing to open your closed mind.
Kavanaugh was criticized for being emotional, teary, & angry.
But Ford...if a woman does the same, she's above criticism....someone is being mean to her.
Personally, I say a real man wouldn't cry or invoke religion.
But then I'm the type who makes even other neanderthals cringe.