Dude, the election was months ago. Trump got over 60 million votes. Get over it already.
For many, the grief process takes a little longer than seven months. The grief of watching a loved one slowly dying generally doesn't end until after death. Personally, I reached acceptance (Kubler-Ross' fifth stage of grief) a decade ago. I considered America terminally ill then, and there has been no reason to see it otherwise since then - an attitude I learned working with hospice.
I agree with whomever it was that said that Trump is not the problem. He's just another symptom of a nation with multisystem failure: government, the media, the schools, corporate America, and most importantly, the intellectual and moral reserve of the American people, 35-40% of which still approve of Trump.
The medical analogy remains apt. If your kidney's are failing, acids accumulate in the blood as systemic pH falls. The respiratory can compensate for this by hyperventilating and blowing off CO2, the gaseous form of carbonic acid.
Or, if the lungs aren't oxygenating the hemoglobin adequately, the heart rate speeds up to compensate. If the blood contains 2/3 of the normal oxygen content, a 50% increase in heart rate compensates for this and returns the oxygen delivery to the tissues to its baseline rate.
But what happens when there is respiratory failure, heart failure, and renal failure in the same organism at the same time- multisystem failure? There is no reserve left. You get a runaway decompensation of all of these systems if artificial support (hemodialysis, artificial ventilation, etc.) doesn't buy time to heal, something that doesn't happen if these changes are chronic rather than of recent onset. There's no coming back from that.
America won't literally die, so the analogy breaks down there. It will just transform to a lower level of existence and remain therefor several generations or longer. You and I will never see the America of our youths again.
Is America becoming great again? Is it winning so much that it's tired of winning? Those words seem laughable now.
In the end, you are correct: "Get over it already." There is no cavalry coming to the rescue. Where would it come from? The media? The schools? Trump? Congress? Putin? The American voter who is so easily deceived that he votes against his own interest as
@tytlyf has so nicely described? Any one of these could be corrected if the others were not also dysfunctional.
Recognizing this is the first step to acceptance.
Are you unable to recognize reality?
I don't recognize America.