I've known parents of children who were murdered find it in their hearts to forgive the murderer. If they can forgive somebody for the worst possible crime, can't God?
I also have difficulty when universalism is criticized for "allowing everybody" into salvation, and then bringing up the worst possible offenses for why it's reasonable to exclude salvation....but then after finding an agreement that murderers shouldn't be forgiven and loved, then the exclusions begin to grow.
And then suddenly, it isn't just murderers anymore. It's:
thieves
slanderers
drunks
homosexuals
adulterers
fornicators
non-Christians
false Christians
Christians who weren't Christian enough
and on and on and on.....
I agree with you. It is why there NEEDS to be a law "do not judge or you will be judged". Some people are trying to make God's forgiveness generic. Everyone is forgiven makes it cheap, I think. The possibility of forgiveness exists for everyone. Is it not complicated? To believe God steps in between the sinner and the victim is to believe God is not for justice.
Someone's example of forgiving a murderer is fine. But I think if the victim survives to suffer the rest of his life, the picture changes a little, doesn't it?
Forgiveness involves three important people. God, the victim and the sinner. For real forgiveness to occur all must agree. The sinner must forgive himself and ask for it, the victim must come to peace about the crime, and God stands ready for all to complete it.
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