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Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
By speaking in general, I meant that I'm not discussing the specific instance of Mohammed, since people seemed to keep thinking I was talking about that. I never brought him up or his child-bride. I'm not arguing about that instance at all. I'm arguing that all instances of adult men having sex with little girls signifies a psychological problem with the adult man. Sorry if there was any confusion.

But if you weren't talking about Mohammad, why'd you bring it up? He and Aisha are the topic of the thread.
 

Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
Your question requires clarification.

You said that all instances of adult men who have sex with little girls have psychological problems. Since this thread is talking about Mohammad and Aisha, it is implied that you are saying that Mohammad had a psychological problem.

But then you say that you weren't talking about the specific instance of Mohammad and his wife, whom we can't really determine if she was a child or not.

Therefore, why'd you bring up the fact that men who have sex with little girls (a term that wasn't adequately defined BTW) have psychological problems?
 

Kilgore Trout

Misanthropic Humanist
Therefore, why'd you bring up the fact that men who have sex with little girls (a term that wasn't adequately defined BTW) have psychological problems?

Because it's true. Whomever it is. The point is I'm not attacking Islam with my arguments. My agenda here isn't to demonize Islam, but rather to point out the ridiculousness of people twisting their brains in the attempt to normalize adult men having sex with little girls. Clear enough?
 

Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
Because it's true. Whomever it is. The point is I'm not attacking Islam with my arguments. My agenda here isn't to demonize Islam, but rather to point out the ridiculousness of people twisting their brains in the attempt to normalize adult men having sex with little girls. Clear enough?

Thing is, no one is doing that.
 

Songbird

She rules her life like a bird in flight
Like I said, I suppose all women need white-knights to speak for themselves. Silly women thinking they have a voice, they obviously need a big strong man to protect them even if they died hundreds of years ago.

That doesn't work here, though. It's not a discussion about women's rights or voices, or even about believing the supposed testimony of an ancient text.

I highly doubt any woman's testimony would be allowed into a text that called into question the sanctity of a religious leader. Among other things, the lack of status women had in all major religions speaks to that.
 

Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
How exactly am I supposed to show you something you refuse to see?

Figure it out, because we could otherwise go back and forth forever about whether I'm refusing to see something, or you're seeing something that's not there.
 

Kilgore Trout

Misanthropic Humanist
Figure it out, because we could otherwise go back and forth forever about whether I'm refusing to see something, or you're seeing something that's not there.

I don't need to go back and forth on that at all. Nothing personal, but I take my own counsel over yours.
 

Skeptisch

Well-Known Member
I don't need to go back and forth on that at all. Nothing personal, but I take my own counsel over yours.
Frequently a lawyer knows his client is guilty but he may still agree to representation. There are many reasons for that. But it seems that a true humanist cannot speak in defence of child molestation. However for someone who just wants to hone his debating skills it maybe a good exercise to agree to disagree.

In the end a technicality is often the only way out.
 

Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
Frequently a lawyer knows his client is guilty but he may still agree to representation. There are many reasons for that. But it seems that a true humanist cannot speak in defence of child molestation. However for someone who just wants to hone his debating skills it maybe a good exercise to agree to disagree.

In the end a technicality is often the only way out.

I'm not just honing my debating skills, though. I'm honestly declaring Mohammad not guilty of child molestation, or having sex with a little girl, or whatever, because it's not clear how old she actually was (at least, apparently this is the case), and, since she was 9 (and lest we forget, she and Mohammad were married when she was 6) when the marriage was consecrated, it's a strong likelyhood that she was in puberty at the time, and thus had the physical maturity of a 13 or 14 year old. Since it would seem that the two lived very happily together from then on, we can safely say that there was any psychological damage from the event.
 

Kilgore Trout

Misanthropic Humanist
I'm not just honing my debating skills, though. I'm honestly declaring Mohammad not guilty of child molestation, or having sex with a little girl, or whatever, because it's not clear how old she actually was (at least, apparently this is the case), and, since she was 9 (and lest we forget, she and Mohammad were married when she was 6) when the marriage was consecrated, it's a strong likelyhood that she was in puberty at the time, and thus had the physical maturity of a 13 or 14 year old. Since it would seem that the two lived very happily together from then on, we can safely say that there was any psychological damage from the event.

You do realize there is more to physical and sexual maturity than menstruating, right? Not to mention the wide mental and emotional maturity differences between a nine year old and a 13 or 14 year old. Sorry, whether she's bleeding or not, a nine year old will appear as a child, and thus nonsexual, to any psychologially normal adult male.
 

Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
You do realize there is more to physical and sexual maturity than menstruating, right?

Yes, I do. Did they back then?

Not to mention the wide mental and emotional maturity differences between a nine year old and a 13 or 14 year old.
Again, were those considered important back in the day? Or, I'll take it one step further: did they exist back then?

Sorry, whether she's bleeding or not, a nine year old will appear as a child, and thus nonsexual, to any psychologially normal adult male.
Nowadays, yes. But was this always the case?
 
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