Why is it that you are so easily discarding sound Hadiths made by the most trustworthy of people?
It's not easy at all Abibi, i've struggled for a long time with these things. The Quran mentions zina in general, and gives a punishment for it. Then a supposed Hadith proposes a completely illogical, unfair and unfitting punishment for this act. Hadiths which all the work surrounding it was done by human who can make mistakes. There is simply no reason to take this verse to be meaning unmarried couples except based on these Hadiths.
In the case that they are unmarried.
That would be again based on the assumption that the verse is talking about unmarried couples.
The punishment is murder by stoning, by which no one knows who was the person to kill the offender. A firing squad would serve the same purpose which would rule your qualm out correct?
IT wouldn't, and here is why. Two reasons:
1) Firing squad will result in him dying in a matter of seconds. While in stoning, it sure might take a while. You're trying to kill a person by throwing stones at him.
2) Even if we supposed its the exact same punishment, it still doesn't change much. Because such two acts quite simply can't have the same punishment.
For what reason do you doubt the message of Umar (R.A)?
You mean whats reported on Umar's behalf that he supposedly said there was a verse and then removed?
If so there's plenty of reasons:
1) If there was such verse. and then it was removed, it quite simply means it no longer applies.
2) There is no evidence of such verse ever existing.
3) There is no evidence that this concept of totally removing verses from the quran is actually true.
It's not just cheating on your wife. It is, in essence, cutting her and the rest of your family from your material support. It is shaming them and ruining their future and the tentative bonds that hold the family together. It is in short not just taking the life of one victim but ruining the lives of many victims.
I totally understand what you're saying Abibi, but think about it its still not the same. They are alive, wounded surely, but alive and fully capable of picking up their lives. Also, in lots of cases when a spouse makes this mistake, the act is forgiven and the couple move on with their lives, and they manage to get over it.