Hello DistinctReason,
You said,
Looking forward to getting opinions on this from religious minds and also people who do not follow a religion.
I am NOT Religious..
The one thing I cannot accept about all religions is the after life. You get in or you don't. Not including purgatory.
Why shouldnt you accept hope for life after death? Im certainly glad I did. You arent happy for people that lived in poverty and sorrow all their lives that embraced that hope? Arent you aware that this present life will end? Who is able to live without hope? Please beware not to place your hope in the wrong things.
You said,
I will explain this using Christianity.
Your after life all depends on the life you live now, whether your 'good or bad'
One of the first questions I asked a Christian was 'How are people bad if God made us that way, why didnt he make us all good' Which I was given the usual speach about the gift of Free Will yadaa yadaa. And for a while I simply accepted that.
Arent you aware that the Bible informs us that God made everything good and that the fall of man brought a curse? Adam and Eve started out innocent before they fell into temptation by their own choice. Think about a person that lives a straight life all of his life until he commits a murder. That single event would adversely affect him and those around him for the rest of his life. So did Adams rebellion affect the whole of mankind that descended from him. The fact that he was warned makes him without excuse. Sin brings a curse.
Hasnt a captain of a ship the right to punish disobedience? Such disobedience could possibly endanger the entire mission including the ship. The fact that the ships mission and the lives of all aboard weighs on the captains shoulder of responsibility is the reason that utmost respect for the captain is essential. The same is true with God thats the Captain of the universe that knows the number of your hairs. The greater the responsibility, the greater the insult to authority and thus the greater the consequences for disobedience.
You said,
But now what I don't understand is, yes we have free will, the ability to make good and bad choices, but do we really? To the extent that we can be judged by them? Eternally?
No body is born evil. The beaten grow up to beat there own and I am aware of the constant moral debate about whether you can blame a person for beating their child when they were beaten their whole life. My opinion on this matter is yes they are still to blame, plenty of people brake out of that cycle. Its 2013 with the amount of deadbeat parents there are nar days simply 'I had a bad upbringing' isnt enough of an excuse anymore. But thats this life, on earth.
Now before I make my actual point I have to explain a few points that I view as facts
God is not evil
God loves his creations
God understands his creations
So, if you agree with those points how can you accept that God would damn a man to hell forEVER for the bad deeds he committed in his life when no child is born evil, so it must be things that have effected him in this life to cause him to act that way? A normal fully functioning human being does not enjoy doing bad things, so they do not do them, if they do, they either do not intend to or do not know what they are doing is bad. If they do not what they are doing they are not a fully functioning human being so how can they be blamed? Its not there fault!
Havent you read that all have sinned? Isn't sin rebellion by free will? Who taught children to be evil if they were not born that way? How do you explain sibling rivalry? Is it necessary to teach a child to do things that necessitate punishment? Have you never done wrong? As for the blame game habits common this day, where did they originate? You said there are many reasons people do bad things. Whats the reasons, please? All are infected with sin.
Retarded people are still sinners.
I will discuss hell further down.
You said,
There are true stories of very young children doing very evil things, which could dispute the fact that no child is born evil, but thats not the point im making, even if a child is born and is 'evil' that backs my point that they cannot be blamed. This includes people with mental health issues
When I asked a Christian about this once they said it is the devil that makes people do bad things; I replied that by claiming that they are admitting it is not the humans fault; They said yes it is because the person should of made the right decision, but in eyes they still cannot really be blamed because there is a reason they made this decision, that God as our creator should be able to understand.
The fact that children are capable of doing evil is the reason they need to be corrected. All that are born sinners are culpable. Retarded and mentally ill people are still sinners. Some children are deliberately taught to do evil such as helping their parents to steal. Children in other parts of the world are given guns for military battle. The sinful nature they were born with is thus enhanced as if adding rocket power to a free fall.
I will talk about the devil in my next paragraph.
You said,
The only dispute to this argument I can think of is if the devil actually appeared to someone of average intelligence and correct mental state, told them to do something, and they did it, knowing that the deed was evil. Then I could accept it.
The devil has power only to tempt and deceive a person into self-destruction. The person that falls for the temptation does so by choice as you indicated. God allows the devil to tempt to test free will. Will the individual trust God to obey His word or will he disobey for lust for the bait?
You said,
To summorize; There are many reasons people do bad things, the only true difference is whether the person is sane or not. If you a concious of doing something bad you should be punished for it. But there is a thick line between punishment and torture. You punish someone to teach them a lesson. Heaven and hell are eternal, you cant vist one and pop to the other. So hell is not a punishment it is torture. And i do not believe that a God who understands his creations would torture them for making wrong decisions that really, they did not choose to make. A human being does not get to choose the person they become, of course they can choose how they act, but not there actual self. You can have urges to kill and keep them locked away, because you are strong enough too. Can we really torture people for not being strong enough? Yes. Can God? Maybe, but is doing that not contradicting the reason hes doing it?
God gives everyone the opportunity to repent throughout his lifetime. That's why preaching is necessary. The person that never hears a preached message has his conscience. Hell is the last resort for the person that never comes to repentance.
A person must be taught good and evil. His choice to be the type of person he becomes is based on his obedience or disobedience to the commandments. If for example a person steals, he chooses to become a thief.
Why did God create hell thats forever? If God lives forever and His created beings live forever, and that a created being rebels by choice and never reconciles himself before he dies, he is forever at odds with God by choice. The fact that God is omnipresent means that its impossible for the rebellious soul to truly separate from God. But the sin of rebellion has no place before God. Thats why God created hell. Even though the rebellious will forever be in the presence of God because God is omnipresent, the job of hell is to take all of the joy and satisfaction that comes with the presence of God away.
Wrong must be punished and God will never allow unpunished sin to ruin eternity as it ruined life on earth. The sinner that never repents has only ruined his own eternity. However, lets not forget that God has offered a way to escape sin as shown in St. John 3:16-17 and 2 Peter 3:9.
You said,
Also, you could dispute this by saying God doesnt understand us enough to be able to accept the reasons we do bad deeds, if this is true, how does he have the right to judge us for them?
Have you ever designed and built a machine that operates in a way that you dont understand? How has the police the right to judge us for wrong? Aren't there laws that govern us?
Take care,
Earl