Alceste
Vagabond
I just think if you don't want to have sex in the first place, don't do it. Stopping half way is possible, but pretty d***** hard.
No, it really isn't. If someone told you it is, I think you've been duped.
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I just think if you don't want to have sex in the first place, don't do it. Stopping half way is possible, but pretty d***** hard.
So basically they need a law in the UK for women who do.
A clarification. I think a man who cant (wont) stop having sex when being asked to stop by the other participant doesnt deserve it. The same would of course apply to women.Obviously you're not entirely familiar with how RF works. When someone (me, in this case) makes a post the includes a quote from a prior post (that of Kerr, in this case) it means the poster (me) is addressing the subject of the quoted material (Kerr's). Here, let me explain it as simply as I can:
Kerr made a post regarding a male's "deservability" of sexual intercourse. He didn't think that any man who couldn't stop himself from ejaculating into a woman's vagina deserved to have sex. In response, I said I found it interesting that "[he] feel a male has to earn the privilege of having sex with a woman, i. e., be deserving of it." Of course my reply wasn't a direct response to the thread's issue, but more of a side issue. Happens all the time here. Stick around; you'll see.
Well... I havent had sex for many years...[he] feel a male has to earn the privilege of having sex with a woman, i. e., be deserving of it
I believe there is a difference between an inconsiderate lover and a rapist.
An inconsiderate lover should be banished and sent away not sent to prison.
I'm not condoning these actions but trying to define where the line is drawn.
All this is a he said she said situation and doubt I will ever see a woman sent to prison for this.
I just think if you don't want to have sex in the first place, don't do it. Stopping half way is possible, but pretty d***** hard.
I believe there is a difference between an inconsiderate lover and a rapist.
An inconsiderate lover should be banished and sent away not sent to prison.
I'm not condoning these actions but trying to define where the line is drawn.
All this is a he said she said situation and doubt I will ever see a woman sent to prison for this.
I'm sorry, but I just can't help but think that those who actually advocate or defend the position of someone continuing after being asked to stop have either actually continued themselves or wouldn't bother to stop if they were asked. I take that as a sign of selfishness and total lack of consideration for whoever their partner is. Sex should be enjoyable for both parties. Once it is no longer enjoyable for both parties it should be ended, period. Any other such act is an act against consent and therefore an act of assault/rape.
Yeah, I feel the same way. The loophole seeking paints a really disturbing and depressing picture of what people might actually be doing in the bedroom.
All I know is that I'm making a secret list of who is going to be invited to my orgy based on this thread alone, and it seems there will be lots of girls. Debater Slayer is one lucky man.
So, you agree that the best thing to do when someone asks another person to stop doing X is for that other person to stop doing X (which might take a certain interval of time in the case of some activities).
If so, then what are you trying to argue? You still seem to disagree with the examples I gave in one way or another.
If i understood what he is saying, it is that people might take about 4 seconds to process a ''Stop!" request, and that the very next penetration after the ''Stop!'' shouldn't be considered rape because the other person hadn't enough time to comprehend and react.
I'm unsure of what part of "NO" or "STOP" can be misunderstood here. Stop means stop, NOW, not "when you get around to it". Is this a difficult concept?We've all repeatedly affirmed that the sexual assault occurs when you understand consent is withdrawn but choose to continue.
I'm unsure of what part of "NO" or "STOP" can be misunderstood here. Stop means stop, NOW, not "when you get around to it". Is this a difficult concept?
I'm unsure of what part of "NO" or "STOP" can be misunderstood here. Stop means stop, NOW, not "when you get around to it". Is this a difficult concept?
So what? Has anyone argued that taking a fraction of a hump to process and react to auditory information is rape?
No, nobody has. We've all repeatedly affirmed that the sexual assault occurs when you understand consent is withdrawn but choose to continue.
And who exactly has disagreed with you here? Everyone has said if you continue against the other person's will it is rape.So what? Has anyone argued that taking a fraction of a hump to process and react to auditory information is rape?
No, nobody has. We've all repeatedly affirmed that the sexual assault occurs when you understand consent is withdrawn but choose to continue.
OK, now we are getting somewhere. So how do you prove exactly when a person has understood withdrawn consent and if they crossed a line or not?
This is nothing but one person sending the other to prison on a whim and an accusation.
They do unless they are omniscient or supernaturally lucky.
Saying wo/men with self control dont cross lines is like saying a person with self control doesnt go pass the red light on a road where the red light can randomly appear anywhere without warning and without a yellow, because that is sex.
Its way easier when it is slow, but it wont be slow all the time.