I believe both are one and the same.
Fair enough. That's what you believe.
I think that two different persons were recorded.
What do you think of these verses? This Jesus is quite different from the descriptions that I've heard during most of my life. How can they align with a loving, peaceful family guy?
Matthew. {10:34}
Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not
to send peace, but a sword. {10:35} For I am come to set a
man at variance against his father, and the daughter against
her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in
law. {10:36} And a man’s foes [shall be] they of his own
household. {10:37} He that loveth father or mother more
than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or
daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
Mark {3:31} There came then his brethren and his mother, and,
standing without, sent unto him, calling him. {3:32} And
the multitude sat about him, and they said unto him, Behold,
thy mother and thy brethren without seek for thee. {3:33}
And he answered them, saying, Who is my mother, or my
brethren? {3:34} And he looked round about on them which
sat about him, and said, Behold my mother and my
brethren!