Dawny, I just replied to another post on another thread but I think my response supports what you're saying, so I've copied it here:
"See, this overreaction right here on this thread is one thing that ticks people off about some gay rights activists.
I am not opposed to equal rights for LGBTs. In fact, I SUPPORT their rights to be treated equally under the law. I am adamantly opposed to discrimination based on sexual preference or lifestyle. I insist in my home and in my interactions that ALL people be treated with respect.
But somehow it seems - it's never enough, because apparently though I support gay rights and condemn discrimination, I am not saying "You're right." I'm saying "Do what you want - you're an adult," and that is never, NEVER enough for some people.
This shows, in my opinion, hypocrisy in many cases. Many of these same people don't hold the same religious or political beliefs that I do. Do I insist that they change their BELIEFS? No - all I want is for them to treat those who disagree with them with basic respect for their human rights, including the right to disagree - regardless of differences of belief or opinion.
But for some people, respect for human rights is never going to be enough. Some people feel persecuted simply because they know that some people don't believe that their lifestyle is morally right. When it comes to that level of interaction, I think it's unfair and basically NOT RIGHT to insist that others not only respect you, but also agree with you.
This is yet another form of intolerance. "Accept me for what I am" goes both ways."