mikkel_the_dane
My own religion
No it isn't and it certainly isn't just because you say
Well, you have to explain how we know gender?
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No it isn't and it certainly isn't just because you say
Gender isnt an abstract. It refers to sex. Male/man, female/woman. Gender roles are abstract and have been socially constructed.Please explain.
l already have. Repeating won't helpWell, you have to explain how we know gender?
Russia should t have invaded Ukraine because you said so? We know some nitwits are "triggered" by t shirts with the name of a former president in it and wish not to see it. It's the selective application of this stuff that BS
If they have ALWAYS been that way, yes. I personally know someone who would argue with their mother at 3 years old that they were a girl. At nearly 60, and still with a penis, is still a woman. Never any doubt or hesitation.So you think someone with a penis who believes, thinks and feels that they are a woman is actually a woman. Thanks.
If your brain is female, you're female.But they've determined they're a woman based on what? How have they decided what they believe think and feel is a woman?
That means you have no idea why you posted it. See again things aren't true simply because you believe think of feel they are true. Glad we agree.Sorry, I thought the Ukraine example would be obvious enough to serve as an example.
So that person is a woman and not a man who thinks they're a woman. Thanks. You also seem to suggest if it hasn't been the case their whole life that they've felt like a different gender then they are what? Playing pretend? For the person you know it's been since age 3. If someone at 18 suddenly feels like a different gender is that not the same as the person you know?If they have ALWAYS been that way, yes. I personally know someone who would argue with their mother at 3 years old that they were a girl. At nearly 60, and still with a penis, is still a woman. Never any doubt or hesitation.
So males and females are different.If your brain is female, you're female.
I don’t need to think about it because it has nothing to do with me. I can just let it be. If I refer to them in some way they feel is incorrect, they can correct me. And I’m fine with that. i don’t need to judge what everyone I encounter thinks of themselves. It would be exhausting, and for no benefit.It's amazing how far people will go to not answer a simple question. Do you think someone with a penis who believes, thinks and feels that they are a woman is actually a woman? Either people can't or won't think.
He knows what he is. His birth certificate, his driver's license, the US census has always identified him as male. But in "his" heart and mind "they" are more female than I, who has female on all that official documentation. They were a good, loving, loyal wife to the same husband for 32 years and is still a grieving widow.So that person is a woman and not a man who thinks they're a woman. Thanks.
I see. So what is your prescription, as the expert you appear to think you are?Yes they define his sex and gender is correlated to sex. The roles historically associated with gender were socially constructed yes. The problem is that fact has been extended to absurd extremes. The argument now is because the roles of gender were socially constructed people can be whatever gender they "feel" like. Its just not so.
I made the unfortunate mistake of asking people what they think. It's funny because lots of people have lots of thoughts about lots of things that have nothing to do with them but they have no problems sharing those thoughts. It's the selectivity that's most hilariousI don’t need to think about, because it has nothing to do with me. Why do you?
What's real isnt the same as what's true.I see. So what is your prescription, as the expert you appear to think you are?
See, I live by an old maxim that I used when I had a staff of many dozens of people, when I had to deal with issues -- my maxim is "people's feelings are real." It's not up to me to change them, only to try to understand them and try to work with them. The worst way to respond to somebody who tells you that they're really mad at you is to say "you shouldn't feel that way." You've already lost the fight if you do that.
So, you going to tell those people, "stop feeling like you do, and start feeling like I do?" Think that'll work? Would it work on you, if the situation were reversed?
WHAT?!? You've been saying in nearly every post in this thread that people with gender dysphoria should feel like that, because of what's between their legs -- not between their ears!What's real isnt the same as what's true.
I never mentioned telling people what they should of shouldnt feel. I can't converse with people like you that only respond to the voices in their heads.
Yes.Is someone with a penis who believes, thinks and feels that they are woman, actually a woman?
For those who understand that your definition of woman is actually the definition of female, no, it is not a simple yes no question.The common response was, it's not a yes or no question. Is that true?
WTF does this have to do with gender identity?If a person said they believe, think and feel that they are a frog mean they are actually a frog?
WTF does this have to do with gender identity?Could we not say to that person you are an amphibian?
Because it's not a simple question.Not sure why it's so hard for people to answer this simple question.
Well, yes.So males and females are different.
I’m just wondering about what you just said, “they are not fat at all…in fact they’re usually too thin”. So whose understanding is true or reality? You said it’s a fact that the anorexic person is usually thin, but the person with anorexia believes they are fat. So what is actually real?It's called a BRAIN. It is "WHO" (not WHAT) you are. It's also handy, from time to time, for thinking with.
There are other kinds of body dysphoria, you know. Anorexia causes people to see themselves as too fat, when in fact there isn't an ounce of fat on their bodies. They can even stand in the shower at the gym with other folks of normal body shape, and still see themselves as too fat compared to others.
So I'll ask you, how is it possible for someone to see themselves as too fat, when they are not fat at all -- in fact they're usually too thin?
Yes, all that is true -- but at the end of the day, "people's feelings are real." Not "real" in the "fact in evidence" way, but real to them. A person may feel frightened, and you may observe that there doesn't appear to be anything for them to be frightened about, but does your observation take away their fear? Of course not! They aren't inside your head.I’m just wondering about what you just said, “they are not fat at all…in fact they’re usually too thin”. So whose understanding is true or reality? You said it’s a fact that the anorexic person is usually thin, but the person with anorexia believes they are fat. So what is actually real?
My perspective is that, as you stated, the person is actually, in reality, physically thin. Their mental/emotional state though is such that they are confused and or deluded about reality.